my boyfriend sometimes makes me cringe with his actions
like i physically cant contain my face sometimes. I understand that some may see it as sweet but to me it just resembles indian drama type level of cringe. Like almost scripted lines and actions that too many couples take part in that sometimes just feel like i'm dating a teenage boy who is trying too hard to impress me. it's really sloppy and i don't like it at all
like for instance the other day i was on video call with him and he started flexing on camera. Think fboy licking lips and getting the camera to angle so he looks like he's posing for snapchat whilst smiling. I was thinking wtf are you doing please stop.
as well as saying cringey generic things like "youre so special", the whole pet name thing which i just despise, and finally telling me stupid things like I miss you when I only saw him a few hours ago, he also tries to be even more sloppy by kissing me in public or holding my hand. Or whispering things in my ear in an attempt to be romantic but lord it has the opposite effect.
I thought he was a roadman type guy who would be tough and not be this sloppy but lord I was so wrong. He became so soft I just feel disgusted sometimes. I really tried to like it so hard because I care about him but I can't help but find my brain thinking what is this behaviour pls when he does certain things.
there's no polite way to tell him he sometimes makes me cringe, so how do i help myself lol?