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Is it considered cheating to be in love with two people at the same time while you're in a relationship without acting on it?
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How can you be in love with someone else without any form of physical intimacy with that person?
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How can you be in love with someone else without any form of physical intimacy with that person?
I guess I'm different? I just loved both of them and I eventually chose the other guy. He's currently the only one for me and we haven't even kissed yet. Anyway I've been in love with him for 6 years now and I've been single for about a year, but I'm really wondering if I was cheating because I loved them both.
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I would only consider it cheating if you act upon it

You might want to consider why you are in love with someone else though
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I would only consider it cheating if you act upon it

You might want to consider why you are in love with someone else though
I eventually chose the first guy (let's call him G) because I've been in love with G for 6 years and I've been single for a year. I was dating the other guy (let's call him S) for almost 3 years and I broke up with him because I couldn't wholeheartedly love him. I'm currently over him and I've been single for almost a year. I'm honestly content with the single life and I still have feelings for G and I'd wait forever for him if I have to and if I stay alone I'm fine with that too. He's currently in a relationship and I'm not about that homewrecker life so I'll wait. I've realised that I just can't love anyone else like I love him. So I'm a hopeless case? Anyway I don't expect a fairytale ending this is just the course that made me the happiest.
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No.
Think what you like, it is your actions that matter.
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It’s only cheating if you do something about it. But I still find it concerning you love another man whilst ur in a relationship you should be too wrapped up in your partner to love anyone else
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It’s only cheating if you do something about it. But I still find it concerning you love another man whilst ur in a relationship you should be too wrapped up in your partner to love anyone else
I loved the other guy first.
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You might connect with two people in that way at the same time so no it isn’t cheating because that would involve betraying your partner in whatever parameters they think is cheating. Loving two people at the same time because you get on would be passive rather than active so not your fault.
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It's not cheating if like the others have said you don't act upon it. What makes you so sure it's love? What is love? I'm genuinely interested since I want to know how it feels.
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I can't really explain love because there are different ways of love, but when you feel it you'll know. If you're questioning wether it's love you're either in denial of the strong feeling or you're not feeling it. I think love is wanting to see someone and wanting them to think about you too and not wanting to hurt them. This doesn't necessarily mean it's romantic love tho. Irdk how to explain.😅😭😂
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It's not cheating if like the others have said you don't act upon it. What makes you so sure it's love? What is love? I'm genuinely interested since I want to know how it feels.
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I can't really explain love because there are different ways of love, but when you feel it you'll know. If you're questioning wether it's love you're either in denial of the strong feeling or you're not feeling it. I think love is wanting to see someone and wanting them to think about you too and not wanting to hurt them. This doesn't necessarily mean it's romantic love tho. Irdk how to explain.😅😭😂
That sounds so sweet, I'll just wait and hope to experience the same thing 😁
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That sounds so sweet, I'll just wait and hope to experience the same thing 😁
You will! Love finds you unexpectedly 😌
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