It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

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I am 24 years old male and I am perhaps one of the most single men on the continent, for I have never had a real relationship. I was fortunate enough to be blessed with one Belgian Lady who has taken my innocence away from me. I will never forget this Lady.

Reply 3

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

Why?

Reply 4

LesserAndrew

lower your standards, go to the gym, or become more interesting. anyone of these will at least help you achieve the latter objective.

Oof

The right person is waiting for you, have faith :smile:

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Anonymous #4

And how many have you friendzoned?

Reply 8

TheProphetsPath

just be 21 instead then

Reply 9

rjckk

How do you like Chinese boy

Reply 10

username2393237

The replies are predictable.

Have you dated many guys?

Reply 11

Gay224

Original post by Anonymous

It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

Want me to help you? Im a bit young tho

Reply 12

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

Possibly a troll who has disappeared!

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Anonymous #5

well i guess were in the same boat but i'm 24 f virgin, i think by 29 I'd just sleep with anyone at that point. I know people say wait but reality is your 29, i think we've got to think of it like a kiss, it doesn't have to mean anything unless you like them.

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Drewski

Original post by Anonymous

It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

Still a v...?

Very interesting person?
Vocationally orientated being?
Vertically challenged individual?
Vociferous campaigner?

Reply 15

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

Yes but if you are 24 then you could have lost your virginity by now if that was something that you really wanted or think is importsnt. You don't have to wait, you can be intelligently proactive about it and by age 26 you will no longer be one. It just needs you to plan how to meet suitable guys. You socialise . You get to know about your own body . You can masterbate without guilt. Read about sexual relationships. And try to be a bit open minded about sex if you are not!

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Anonymous #5

Original post by mgi

i think i'm open but i'm closed off when i feel like it's just sex, like i could be anybody to them or a guy just treats you like crap and just wants sex, like you're nothing to them. I don't want to be with guys who just want hook ups, i want a relationship or even friendship that moves towards that.

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Anonymous #5

Original post by Anonymous

also yeah wish i had lost it by now but i'm not the most confident person anyway so i guess i'm finding it hard to put myself out there and i don't want to force things

Reply 18

mgi

Original post by Anonymous

That's fine. You are clear about what you want! So how would your dating method style or pattern look like?

Reply 19

MonsoonFlower

Original post by Anonymous

It frustrates me that I'm 29 but still don't have a boyfriend and that I'm still a v

Well at least it purely shows that you respect your body.

I didn't lose my virginity until I was in my mid 20s (I'm in my late 20s now).

To be honest in my personal opinion and experience, losing your virginity isn't a big thing than society makes out.

If you do want to lose it though, you should do it with someone who you can trust and not take advantage of you because of your situation, otherwise you will end up regretting it.