Public bullying due to my appearance

So today on the train I was in a very contemplative mood right, you could say I was in a delta brain state or whatever, it was late and I was tired. And I was literally looking at this mans ankle, and I could tell he could feel it (I think) and he started to swear at me with his fingers. And he’s got a friend on the seats in front of me (I was opposite/behind) and I had my legs on the seat a little but idk she looked back at me as well. And I just feel like....was he swearing at me or his friend? I just have to address this I’m sorry. Because I feel really insecure about how I look. Last time I walked past a bunch of Chavs and one called me a tramp. Also while I was in Bradford, yes I’m Gna say the city, I was walking to town when someone asked “is it a boy or a girl? 😂😂😂😂

But yeah I feel something by these things im very insecure and just getting it out there makes me feel good because I honestly don’t know what to do in the moment like what do I say? I’m a 20 year old female btw and I’m not amazingly pretty at times, when I have no make up and living at home. Whenever I look nice my mum would always make comments or stare at me and I can’t handle it like my parents never just simply let me look after myself and that’s affected me in my adult life. Thanks.

I can appreciate how you felt in the moment that happened. It may seem trivial to some, but from the sense I get from your post, you’re lacking confidence and self esteem which makes this event quite big and also it enforces those insecurities.

If you want to wear make up, or wear different clothes or do your hair then you do it! People may comment, purely because it’s not something they’re used to, they’ll soon stop commenting after a while. But don’t feel like you have to do/wear or be anything you don’t want to be.

I would try and work on your confidence, because you’ve done nothing wrong and it shouldn’t be affecting you as much as it has (I mean that in a nice way, I just don’t know how else to word it).

sometimes... I don't have the motivation. That day, I was living in my house alone in a city that makes me feel a bit sick.

I have frizzy short hair its horrendous I want extensions and I only have one boob so boobs are really really tricky. Im a 34b. by only one, I mean for some reason my right never grows/grew. Don't ask I don't know. It is how it is.

But the rest thank you so much. I just have to say again I feel so ashamed of myself and like such a outcast that most of the time I don't feel like im worth working on

Don't go out in public, you sound weird.

Don't go out in public, you sound weird.

I have some issues but I can tell when someones just a ****

Yes well done gurl!Stand up for yourself because you are worth everything.Responding to your first post I would say you need to work on your self esteem and confidence.People can be really **** sometimes.But do you recognise he started swearing at because you were looking at his ankles instead of just asking you whats wrong.Shows he has insecurities too and that swearing was to make himself feel better and and act of self defense so don't take it to heart.

You can get help from the other posters answers.They are really good and helpful.

Hey
it’s people like u who make life worth living! Who see u at your worst and still help you and accept you thank you. It’s better that people admit how they feel rather than hide it, so I can actually work on myself. I agree all the answers were amazing. And u made a good point that made a lot of sense! I wish you all the best on your days ahead, thank you. And I will continue to sort myself out xD