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No, my question is not "dO wHiTe gIrLs lIkE iNdIaN gUyS?" lol.

I've noticed that most (or at least a lot) of Indian guys living here have Indian girlfriends/wives. Now with how many more white girls there are here than Indian girls, statistically you'd expect the vast majority of Indian guys to get with white girls. So just out of interest, what's the reason? Is it more so a matter of preference, a matter of culture (parents expect you to) or what? It seems they would have to go out of their way to ensure this.
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syrup!

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Preserve culture and language
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i'm not an Indian lad, but I'd say it's mainly to do with brown culture. Plenty of guys who still go for white chicks though.
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Where does it say it’s “haram” ?

You can’t state things that do not exist because that itself is haram
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lol im not talking about muslims, just Indians in general.
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looool ur acc a different breed of kotha


nah im juss genetically predisposed to be attracted to brown gyals more than others tbh
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No, my question is not "dO wHiTe gIrLs lIkE iNdIaN gUyS?" lol.

I've noticed that most (or at least a lot) of Indian guys living here have Indian girlfriends/wives. Now with how many more white girls there are here than Indian girls, statistically you'd expect the vast majority of Indian guys to get with white girls. So just out of interest, what's the reason? Is it more so a matter of preference, a matter of culture (parents expect you to) or what? It seems they would have to go out of their way to ensure this.
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(Original post by RazzzBerries)
i'm not an Indian lad, but I'd say it's mainly to do with brown culture. Plenty of guys who still go for white chicks though.
Is it somehow frowned upon for an Indian guy to be with a white girl?
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Look, it’s just cultural.

There are many attractive Indian girls out there as well.
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Is it somehow frowned upon for an Indian guy to be with a white girl?
Sometimes...
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What's weird to me is comparatively how many Indian girls get with white guys.
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coconuts innit
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What's weird to me is comparatively how many Indian girls get with white guys.
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Culture and precedence
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Where I’m from, white girls dont really like brown guys in that way
But yeah, culture mainly
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(Original post by JPMorgan.)
Where I’m from, white girls dont really like brown guys in that way
But yeah, culture mainly
ouch that's harsh
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of them
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ouch that's harsh
I mean I’m not white, I think brown guys are attractive
Das what the white girls in my school think, but who cares what they think lol 😆
P.S I personally don’t find Caucasian guys attractive it’s the other way round lol 😂
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of them
Do you have an obsession? Many of the Indian guys are probably not that attractive anyway
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I'm Pakistani, so it's a similar culture.

Basically, there's a lot of cultural pressure to preserve the culture (and religion). There also is the issue that a lot of family members only speak Punjabi/Urdu/Hindi (the last 2 are very mutual intelligible, with Punjabi being less intelligible but better than nothing), so communication will be a lot easier if there's a common language. South Asian culture is very conservative and collectivist, so marriage is usually seen as a way to benefit the family rather than personal happiness. It must be said that Indian culture usually is more open to integration into the West, maybe because Pakistanis are generally Muslim which is more 'controlling' than Hinduism and Sikhism (cast aside, I mean as governing your day-to-day life and political system).

A little anecdote. I have been with my girlfriend, who is a white atheist (I'm an atheist too, which is another thing I can't tell my parents), for 4 years. I cannot tell my parents. Things are quite hard right now because of it. I don't mind being kicked out as much, but I will feel so guilty because my relatives will talk about my family a lot, which will make it worse. South Asian cultures can be very toxic, and keeping up appearances is very important.
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