How can I be more friendly, warm and approachable?

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Hi everyone,

I'm a female and I've been told that I'm intimidating This makes me feel like I might be coming across as cold, shy, aloof, guarded etc.

Can anyone offer some practical advice as to how I can come across as more approachable? I want to come across as a more friendly lady in relation to dating, but also in work and just life generally.

I feel like I miss out on so many great connections and opportunities! Thank you
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smile more, even if it's not genuine and a polite smile
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi everyone,

I'm a female and I've been told that I'm intimidating This makes me feel like I might be coming across as cold, shy, aloof, guarded etc.

Can anyone offer some practical advice as to how I can come across as more approachable? I want to come across as a more friendly lady in relation to dating, but also in work and just life generally.

I feel like I miss out on so many great connections and opportunities! Thank you
100% Smile more.
Listen to cheerful music, that makes you happy, with good meaning, sounds bizarre but that makes me a lot happier.
Hope you have a good day!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Hi everyone,

I'm a female and I've been told that I'm intimidating This makes me feel like I might be coming across as cold, shy, aloof, guarded etc.

Can anyone offer some practical advice as to how I can come across as more approachable? I want to come across as a more friendly lady in relation to dating, but also in work and just life generally.

I feel like I miss out on so many great connections and opportunities! Thank you
Smile, dress cutely, be genuine, be more bubbly and most importantly just be yourself
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Anonymous #1
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Hopefully too smart I'm doing well in my career and a few guys have said this to me.. Hopefully not brawny as I'm very tiny and petite! I'm also quiet until you get to know me. I'm trying to be more open and friendly.
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How many people have told you are intimidating?

My worry would be a very small sample of people have told you this and it is being vastly overanalysed.
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Be open about your feelings and opinions. Try to make it clear what your interests are so that people have something they can talk to you with.
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