HELP IM WORRIED because my sex drive has dissapeared for weeks now Watch

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So I like to think that I’m generally a horny person.. well I used to be and now I’m in a relationship that I’ve been in for almost a year now. I love my boyfriend to bits! I wouldn’t be able to get by without him that’s how much he means to me.
Since our relationship began we took it really slow and only began doing simple stuff like holding hands and hugging and just that by itself used to turn me on so much and I felt so close to him. About two and a half weeks ago we started kissing properly and when we had a first kiss I didn’t feel anything at all? I feel like I stopped feeling like this a week before our first kiss. And now we are constantly kissing and touching.. don’t get me wrong I can’t keep my hands off him because I’m attracted to him and love him but I don’t feel horny AT ALL. It’s made me sad because I was so excited for this moment and now..NOTHING. I’ve tried everything nothing makes me horny anymore.

This has happened before during exam season. My sex drive dissapeared for a while but I’m guessing it was because of stress and now it’s happening again.

It’s making me extremely sad because I want to feel how I used to. I know some may advise masterbation or porn but none of it works. I even feel like going to the GP. I read up on reasons why I may be feeling like this but I’m not stressed of anything like that.. I need help it’s not even like me and my boyfriend see eachother a lot for me to be over it.. there’s enough time for us to get excited but I don’t feel anything.. not even fanny flutters as Maura from love island would say.
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So I like to think that I’m generally a horny person.. well I used to be and now I’m in a relationship that I’ve been in for almost a year now. I love my boyfriend to bits! I wouldn’t be able to get by without him that’s how much he means to me.
Since our relationship began we took it really slow and only began doing simple stuff like holding hands and hugging and just that by itself used to turn me on so much and I felt so close to him. About two and a half weeks ago we started kissing properly and when we had a first kiss I didn’t feel anything at all? I feel like I stopped feeling like this a week before our first kiss. And now we are constantly kissing and touching.. don’t get me wrong I can’t keep my hands off him because I’m attracted to him and love him but I don’t feel horny AT ALL. It’s made me sad because I was so excited for this moment and now..NOTHING. I’ve tried everything nothing makes me horny anymore.

This has happened before during exam season. My sex drive dissapeared for a while but I’m guessing it was because of stress and now it’s happening again.

It’s making me extremely sad because I want to feel how I used to. I know some may advise masterbation or porn but none of it works. I even feel like going to the GP. I read up on reasons why I may be feeling like this but I’m not stressed of anything like that.. I need help it’s not even like me and my boyfriend see eachother a lot for me to be over it.. there’s enough time for us to get excited but I don’t feel anything.. not even fanny flutters as Maura from love island would say.
Could just be your hormones have changed which has affected your libido. Don't fixate on it. If you want to be sexual with your boyfriend, let it happen and enjoy what is happening in that moment instead of worrying about if you're horny or not.

Also, it could be because you're been together almost a year, so you've built it up in your head about how amazing it will be to by physical, and now you're just starting to do it and you've realised it isn't as fantastic as you had imagined it to be. You're disappointed and your body just isn't feeling the sexual attraction anymore. This isn't saying you aren't attracted to your boyfriend, it's just stating the fact that simply kissing someone isn't as amazing as the films make it out to be, and you're now realising this.
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So I like to think that I’m generally a horny person.. well I used to be and now I’m in a relationship that I’ve been in for almost a year now. I love my boyfriend to bits! I wouldn’t be able to get by without him that’s how much he means to me.
Since our relationship began we took it really slow and only began doing simple stuff like holding hands and hugging and just that by itself used to turn me on so much and I felt so close to him. About two and a half weeks ago we started kissing properly and when we had a first kiss I didn’t feel anything at all? I feel like I stopped feeling like this a week before our first kiss. And now we are constantly kissing and touching.. don’t get me wrong I can’t keep my hands off him because I’m attracted to him and love him but I don’t feel horny AT ALL. It’s made me sad because I was so excited for this moment and now..NOTHING. I’ve tried everything nothing makes me horny anymore.

This has happened before during exam season. My sex drive dissapeared for a while but I’m guessing it was because of stress and now it’s happening again.

It’s making me extremely sad because I want to feel how I used to. I know some may advise masterbation or porn but none of it works. I even feel like going to the GP. I read up on reasons why I may be feeling like this but I’m not stressed of anything like that.. I need help it’s not even like me and my boyfriend see eachother a lot for me to be over it.. there’s enough time for us to get excited but I don’t feel anything.. not even fanny flutters as Maura from love island would say.
You can't have tried everything. Have you been kissed everywhere. Maybe the usual kissing is not enough for you? or maybe your hormones have changed. You are early in terms of sexual experience so don't be hard on yourself.
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