I was telling my dad that this week I will go out with my mates to watch some movie when I was eating and my dad was sitting behind me in a sofa, my dad got curious about my friends and asked me what movies we like watching, I said stuff like Spider-man, Avengers, anything fictional basically.
My dad was then like "Ah so you are all dumb as I expected", and I am like "Excuse me?", he says that only dumb people like fictional stories and that we should be watching more..appropriate movies such as ones based on historical event. I am **** OFF, we are just 18, do you really think us lot enjoy that kind of stuff? He is like, well if they are intelligent people, aspiring doctors etc..then yes, they do but I know you are a dumb student so it makes sense you hang out with dumb friends.
After I heard that, I was so, so, SO ANGRY, I am not dumb, I am an average student that gets Bs and Cs at A level and my mates are average students like me, my dad himself only works as a mechanic, a pretty "low status" job if you ask me. Not only did my dad say such elitist shite he also laughed and mocked at me for it, that was my last straw and I threw a drink at that ugly laughing face of his.
And then after I threw the drink, he said sarcastically "All right, all right, they are all clever" and I faced him back with such an angry expression in my face he finally shut his mouth. My friends are nice people, they give me happiness and helped me a lot through difficult times and I find it absolutely disgusting he chats **** about them and mocks me for having them simply they don't have As and A*s and because they are not aspiring surgeons, doctors and all of that elitist ****.
I gave him a piece of my mind and told him I do not discriminate people based on their academic status, I will not and never will adapt such backwards elitist ideologies like you. I hate this whole concept of staying in your "own social circle" and mingling with people that have similar academic status to you only. I would rather have a nice person with Es at A level than some douchebag with A*s at A level as my friend any day. You yourself aren't clever and will get D maximum at A level, so I dunno what you were laughing about back there.
Just how do I deal with him the next time he brings up such shite talk like this? I really do not want to get triggered again that I have to seriously hurt him. And yes my dad is Asian.
PS - Sorry for making the post so long, but I thought the more details, the better