A weird social problem Watch
It started last year when i thought '**** it, lets be confident and try to look better' (with regular visits to the gym too) and for some odd reason i started to be able to pull any woman any time outside college. However, in my college (which is with a secondary school) i am socially average and was seen as quite loserish from 11 years old to 16 years old.
I don't know why i can't pull any woman at college either?...
I know this may sound really arrogant but i am telling my problems (the truth) and it'd be nice to get some advice.
- CV Helper
Try being yourself, if you see a girl you like try starting a convo, can't expect them to all come to you. Talk about what course they're doing etc.
Anyway, I had the same sort of 'problem' during the last couple of years at my school. Prior to sixth form I'd been overweight, painfully shy and very bitter about, well, everything. Then I got over the whole binge eating thing, shaped up and started trying to make friends. With few successes.
People just take a while to catch up. They think of you in a certain way, it's difficult to suddenly change your entire perception of someone.
Just don't go from 'that socially average loser' (what the hell is 'socially average' when it's at home anyway?) to 'that arrogant ****'.