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Girls: have you ever felt you are not "normal" down there? I was with my boyfriend a couple of months back and he said I was "ugly" but I've since found out he has certain issues regarding genitals, which makes me wonder why he bothered going down there in the first place!!

I was just wondering if anyone had had something similar happen to them, someone insult them down there, boy or girl.

I think porn is a major factor in making girls and boys feel like they should be "perfect" down there
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Well he sounds like a prick.
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Ditto! Hardly nice of him!!!
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What a ass!
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Genitalia in general is quite ugly, but still attractive, if it's a vagina... :coma:
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Ad-Alta
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If this is regarding your labia, you should check out this thread: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...a#post12111552
It might make you feel better

But yes, on a general note - I do worry that boys expect females to be completely hairless and resembling pre-pubescent girls in their genitalia, which just isn't how women are naturally.
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eh? He didn't like your downstairs? What an idiot. Its suppose to look all weird and stuff
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ignore him...im sure he's not perfect down there either...
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I don't watch porn so i wouldn't know lol. My bf obv doesn't care but i'd be mortified if he ever said anything. That was horrid of that guy, he'll be lucky if he gets any talking to girls like that! And what is 'normal' anyway? As long as you're clean etc...
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What an idiot of a guy.


NO-ONE's attractive down there. We're not used to seeing genitalia because people don't walk around naked, so they all shock us. If anyone ever says that to you again, slap him or her.
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:ditto:

How dang mean of him..
Take no notice

uth =]
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(Original post by Ad-Alta)
If this is regarding your labia, you should check out this thread: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...a#post12111552
It might make you feel better

But yes, on a general note - I do worry that boys expect females to be completely hairless and resembling pre-pubescent girls in their genitalia, which just isn't how women are naturally.
I like a girl to have some hair down there, I like the feel of pubic hair.
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everyone is different 'down there', there is no 'norm', and i agree, your boyfriend sounds a jerk and should show more respect if wants to be that intimate, he clearly had some unrealistic idea about what it's supposed to be like.
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maybe he's been watching too much porn? as others have said theres no one preference or norm for how it should be down there. But there was no need for him to be rude about it, he sounds like a bit of a jerk :s:
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He didnt deserve to be down there in the first place if he's the sort of person to tell a girl her most intimate area's ugly!
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What an ********! hes probably really insecure himself, and what he said probably has nothing to do with the way you look down there! im the same tho, i feel a bit like when u see porn stars your like.. how do they look like that? all hair free and ingrown hair free etc haha... but im sure normal girls arent all like that, and i dont think u have anything to worry bout! like someone else said as long as its clean!! that the vital part!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
What an ********! hes probably really insecure himself, and what he said probably has nothing to do with the way you look down there! im the same tho, i feel a bit like when u see porn stars your like.. how do they look like that? all hair free and ingrown hair free etc haha... but im sure normal girls arent all like that, and i dont think u have anything to worry bout! like someone else said as long as its clean!! that the vital part!
exactly, cleanliness is more important. Also guys dont seem to realise how hard and annoying it is to get it completely hair free :s: Trimmed and kept tidy is much better (and easier to maintain:p:) and doesnt make you look possibly like a prepubescent 10 yr old girl
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They aren't supposed to be overly pretty... serves a purpose, but it's hardly going to look like a pre pubescent girls!!!
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Are you still with this guy? I know that if my boyfriend ever said that to me, I'd dump him in the blink of an eye :/
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he deserved a slap!
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