Desperate for a friend but they are not Watch
Another feeling is with girls...I always get the feeling that girls dont even want to be friends after dates...some do but others dont...well they say yeah keep me on facebook but nothing else happens...the talking of oh email me email me goes...she had a line of men like in her diary for dates....but you cant go from "is it strange I am looking at how you get to mine on the train" and "I cant believe you went offline at 11pm" to ah only on 5 mins gotta bo bye...even before meeting.
Anyway how many girls make friends because they like the company rather than making friends just for the sake of it?
How would you say these online chats and your dates have gone? Have you been smiling as you type things, or thinking about the dates long afterwards?
I don't really understand your last question -- surely 'friends just for the sake of it' aren't really friends?
If its people meeting from big distances you have to consider expense and jobs/school factors and everything else, some people may wanna stay with people that live in the vicinity of them, maybe you say facebook, filter your search to your local area and make closer friends, you may notice a dramatic difference, i have friends in manchester but i live in liverpool i see them a few times a year and have a ball every time i see them, but that is life just relax and take a step back on life, slow things down a little bit and it tends to make sence to you a little bit more.
Anyways i hope i helped xx good luck (Y)