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Anyway, sex can range from either a few minutes (a quickie) or nearer an hour, it depends on the guy etc. I usually start getting bored after about 25 minutes though lol
but yeah it does get tiring but if it's good then you wont care..
if it is his first time then he probably wont last as long most likely around 5-10 minutes, providing he doesnt get too nervous and he manages to finish haha..
but then after first time id say the average is around 20-40 minutes for ACTUAL penetrative sex, with foreplay it can last for hours and hours, but no it doesnt get tedious if youre enjoying it, in fact you probably wont notice how much time has passed.
just dont worry about it too much or your first time will be ruined for you cause you'll constantly be wondering if its going alright and then when it gets over a certain amount of time you'll make yourself bored lol.
just enjoy it =] and if youre reallllly not into it, tell the guy that cause its your first time its starting to hurt and he should stop. perfect excuse
I definately agree with Amelorn.
Things like when the guy last came/had sex, how many times he has recently ejaculated, how much 'stimulation' he has had down there (without coming) just before you start proper sex, if you take breaks during sex to do other things (eg. oral on the girl), speed you're going at, position etc and even things like using a condom or not, how 'tight' the girl is and how 'wet' she is/if you use lube can all affect how long a guy lasts.
It can, therefore vary within a guy. I've lasted just 5-7 mins before and lasted up to 45. But then again, that wasn't 45 mins of non-stop intercourse, it included the odd stop for oral on the girl etc. Doing this (or other foreplay style acts) mid-sex can be useful, it gives you the chance for a break meaning you last longer when you start up again but also, your girlfriend should still be quite happy because she's not missing out whilst you're letting it chill for a bit.
But, by the same token, it's all about give and take. It shouldn't always be about one person feeling they have to do things a certain way just to please their partner. It is quite nice if your girlfriend occasionally gives you decent oral beforehand; it might make the intercourse afterwards not last as long on that occasion but it is nice for the guy.
Probably the best thing, if the guy has fairly fast recovery, is for the guy to ejaculate early on in foreplay, then you can focus more on the girl and then have sex when the guy is ready again. That way he'll probably last longer and get to come twice!
Im a boy btw lol
Hey. I'm 18 and a virgin. Having sex with the boyfriend very soon, Jw in general how long does it last? Also is it a bit awkward if it's very silent and you two are just making noises How do you cope with this?
If it feels awkward, you're not ready.
it's my first time - im guessing it will feel pretty uncompfortable
Play some music in the background - just make sure it's not heavy metal.
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And its all a matter of situation...honestly, I've lasted 2 hours excluding foreplay, thought I was a badman, then gone on to have sex with another girl for 5 minutes. Theres no set time, and if you know what else you can do when Mr Happy gets sad, then time isn't even a factor.