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After half a year of dating, my ex gf found out i was "poor" by which i mean that my parents earn together around as much as one of hers. This wasn't a secret, it just never came up. After finding this out she has decided that she wants nothing to do with me at all. Any advice on how to take this, cause this kind of betrayal cuts deep, and i thought we where closer than that.
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*hugs*

I'm sorry to here she did that, and IMO she's a naive ***** if she think it makes the slightest bit of difference. You're better shot of her.

Hope you're OK
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(Original post by Anonymous)
After half a year of dating, my ex gf found out i was "poor" by which i mean that my parents earn together around as much as one of hers. This wasn't a secret, it just never came up. After finding this out she has decided that she wants nothing to do with me at all. Any advice on how to take this, cause this kind of betrayal cuts deep, and i thought we where closer than that.
welcome to the class system....
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That's awful of her! My advice is to go out and find someone who isn't so shallow, you deserve better than her!
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welcome to the class system....
he has more class than her

is that what you mean?
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ouch, thats harsh.
cliche... but if someone dumps you because your 'poor' your better off without her!
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thanks, it was a problem in primary school, but at 18 everyone i know has grown out of it. after spending soo much time helping her with her problems it kinda smarts that she would do this. I honestly didn't see it comming
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Totally agreeing with bekachu above.
Just don't let it get to you mate. Don't let her selfish act degrade you.
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welcome to the class system....

seriously what are the different classes of this day and age?
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Lets throw some Molotov cocktails at her house :ninja:
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Get shot she isn't a nice person, in fact to say what i would think of someone like that isn't civil.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
After half a year of dating, my ex gf found out i was "poor" by which i mean that my parents earn together around as much as one of hers. This wasn't a secret, it just never came up. After finding this out she has decided that she wants nothing to do with me at all. Any advice on how to take this, cause this kind of betrayal cuts deep, and i thought we where closer than that.
Admittedly, it did take you six months to find out that she's a completely substandard human being, so you're clearly not as close as you thought you were.

Seriously though, tell any mutual friends exactly what happened so that they know what type of person she is, and be glad that this happened before she had the butler forcibly remove you from the estate. You deserve someone much better.
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What a horrible person she sounds
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She sounds like a potential gold digger. You should have stolen as much money as you could from her or make her pay for everything.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
After half a year of dating, my ex gf found out i was "poor" by which i mean that my parents earn together around as much as one of hers. This wasn't a secret, it just never came up. After finding this out she has decided that she wants nothing to do with me at all. Any advice on how to take this, cause this kind of betrayal cuts deep, and i thought we where closer than that.
Its quite funny actually. becuase obviously a girl who is as ignorant and naive as this cannot be clever AT ALL so she probably has crap grades and is just expecting to live of the bank of mum and dad for the rest of her life, but in reality her parents will stop giving her money after a while and shell just be a poor porper like "you". shes gonna look like a right mug in 10 years time, trust me lol
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thanks, it was a problem in primary school, but at 18 everyone i know has grown out of it. after spending soo much time helping her with her problems it kinda smarts that she would do this. I honestly didn't see it comming
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It has got nothing to do with class.
It's to do with her being a shallow *****.
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the class systems we had before dont really exist in the same way because even the porest peopel have a fairly decent quality of life

demonstrated in this case because they went out for 6 months and the girl had no major reason to think the Op was poorer than her.

the class system of odl doesnt really exist in the same way as it did before, it is much more complex and isnt really just about money IMO.
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Omg what a *****, just be glad you found out now and not like in a years time... I had no idea people were still like that in this day and age!

Do we really have a class system? I mean yeah, people are always going to have different amount of money, but I honestly didn't think people were like judged on it

God I sound incredibly naive haha
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Anonymous #1
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different classes are along the lines of lower class (me), working class, middle class, upper class, lower nobility, upper nobility, royalty. then there are stupid little sub class things like working lower class( also me)
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