Relationship worries making me sick Watch
His parents don't like me just cos I was quiet the once - they have never really tried to make the effort as much as I have. They tried to brainwash him last year which he launched a verbal attack on me but I realised if I finish it they will have got their way, they keep inviting him away with them on the weekend so I don't know if they want rid of me too. I just don't know what to do and whenever I get in the mood to make the effort again his moods just bring me down. I said I saw some relatives earlier and had a few cakes so wasn't hungry and he goes 'you will have to burn that off then' which makes me feel I am undesirable. I have not been happy for a while and am sad cos at the beginning everything was great and he was the one - just don't know what to do.
- CV Helper
More to the point, at the end of the day, he should want to be with you for you not for the sex. he should be willing to wait 20 years if he had to! Try explaining to him that its not all about sex, and try talking to him! Because if you get the tension out of the way, he might be more bearable to talk to, you'll be more relaxed and possibly find your sex drive again.
If he thinks it is all about sex, dump him. he's not worth it.
& ignore his parents, its you & him in the relationship, not you, him and his parents.