Girls, would you be offended if your guy asked you only for a quickie? Watch

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Some days I just can't go to sleep. After thinking about the causes and solutions, I've concluded that it's because I still have too much energy at the end of the the day and don't feel tired enough. As I need to be sharp and alert for the following day, I really, really do need to get to sleep early and have a good night's sleep. The only solution to my mind is a quickie - the exhaustion is enough to get me to sleep in no time.

Only problem is that she's going to think I'm really selfish for wanting a quickie only so that I can go to sleep.

What's the best way of letting her know that I want her to come over for a quickie without making her feel, well, used? Do you think I'm selfish for wanting a quickie? I can't really be bothered to do the whole romantic thing - I just want her to come over, bang, bang, and go to sleep.

[Please don't ask me to put up a poll because, firstly, this is serious matter and, secondly, it's not a joke]
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It would depend on the frequency you asked and whether I was in the mood?
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If you live together, asking for a quickie is one thing. Getting her to come over specifically for a quickie, then collapsing is post-orgasmic exhaustion while she frustratedly puts her clothes back on and traipses home unsatisfied is in my mind pretty unacceptable. It's not a proposition I would take up very often I can assure you. Can't you go running or something?
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I don't see how it would be offensive.

But that could just be cos I'm a guy :p:
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I'd be extremely offended, tbh.
Sex should be much more deep than that.
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v. offended!
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I wouldnt be offended....just because u r having a quickie doesnt mean the sex doesnt has any depth....
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(Original post by SuicideCommando)
I'd be extremely offended, tbh.
Sex should be much more deep than that.
fancy a quickie and a chat?
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Sex should be much more deep than that.
Was that innuendo intentional?

Oh dear I feel like The Todd from Scrubs lol, yeah OP, go running, it's good for the health to have some fresh air as well!
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Slightly offended.

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(Original post by stryker101)
fancy a quickie and a chat?
S'way to my heart, love.:]
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You should go round to hers!
I wouldn't be offened but I wouldnt make the effect to go round to yours and home again either, if you came to mine then why not? The walk home could tire you out aswell lol!
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(Original post by SuicideCommando)
S'way to my heart, love.:]
wow high maintainance or what:eek:
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It would be using her unless you were totally transparent about your motives right from the outset.
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OK, the think is I do go to the gym during the day but the afterburn seems to make me feel even more energetic. Believe me, I've tried exhausting myself by doing cardio and weights during the day but it just doesn't seem to work. But a quickie does.

Just because I want a quickie doesn't mean I don't love her - I do! I think she'd understand but I just want to make sure that she won't feel that I'm just using her - if she does feel that way I don't she'd tell me.
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if it was a regular thing then i would be offended. i dont mind him asking every so often. :p: and my bf likes it to help him sleep also:p:
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(Original post by Christian_j)
Was that innuendo intentional?
Yerrr it was. I should really be more obvious sometimes!x
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Dude, search. This thread came up a few days ago:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...e#post12790963
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wow high maintainance or what:eek:
You know it, biatchhh(H)!
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If a guys willing to prolong sex for the girl's pleasure then it seems fair that occasionally the girl agrees to a quickie for the guy's sake
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