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Thats what I was thinking but they arent that friendly in my surgery theres only one nice one and its a woman!
And? See her.
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So get a new doctor! Stop making excuses - at the end of the day if you want help, go to the doctor, if not then stop posting on here! We can't directly help you we can only make suggestions.
Excuse me I AM going to see her I NEVER said I wasnt I was just saying shes only in once a week.

I was just replying to what people were saying I had already made my mind up a few posts in.
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Nothing about any of your posts has suggested you are definitely going to go and see a doctor, you were posting reasons not to go.
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Nothing about any of your posts has suggested you are definitely going to go and see a doctor, you were posting reasons not to go.
I posted reasons why I didnt like to go not reasons why I wasnt going to go so its how you see it.

I mentioned the not very nice doctors and the good ones in once a week, I meant that id have to wait a few days to see her not that I wouldnt

I didnt say I wasnt going to go at any point.
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I posted reasons why I didnt like to go not reasons why I wasnt going to go so its how you see it.

I mentioned the not very nice doctors and the good ones in once a week, I meant that id have to wait a few days to see her not that I wouldnt

I didnt say I wasnt going to go at any point.
Lol, I didn't say you said you weren't going ot go, I said you were stating reasons not to. You also didn't say that you were going to go.
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Lol, I didn't say you said you weren't going ot go, I said you were stating reasons not to. You also didn't say that you were going to go.
But you said I was making excuses about not going!
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Well, glad you're going to see a doc. Good luck!
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I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself. Just take things slow and if it's meant to happen it will. Even if you can't perform, your girlfriend shouldn't hold it against you. If she does then she's not a very understanding girlfriend.

Maybe try telling her your anxieties when you feel ready to and the problem may ease slightly.
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So we tell you to go to a doctor and you say this...

(Original post by Anonymous)
Thats what I was thinking but they arent that friendly in my surgery theres only one nice one and its a woman! but she only seems to be in once a week.

Had a doctor moan at me last week as I asked for a copy of a letter I had for uni when I handed in my essay late and lost the original and he moaned and went "I dont believe you, you cant just lose a letter" and refused to give me a copy(all he needed to do was go into the pc which was on and print it out and sign it)
but implies negativity, i.e. you are stating reasons against not going.
I'm not telling you you're not going to go, I'm telling you that what you have posted suggested that you were trying to find a reason not to. Next time, feel free to state in plain English exactly what you mean so that those of us who aren't lucky enough to be capable of mind-reading know exactly what's going on.
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So we tell you to go to a doctor and you say this...



but implies negativity, i.e. you are stating reasons against not going.
I'm not telling you you're not going to go, I'm telling you that what you have posted suggested that you were trying to find a reason not to. Next time, feel free to state in plain English exactly what you mean so that those of us who aren't lucky enough to be capable of mind-reading know exactly what's going on.
I was being negative about that one doctor not the good one I was getting at the rest arent that emotive but one is good but shes only in once a week(as it stands a Friday)

But I wrote that on purpose a bit as I knew someone would say something like you said as I deliberatly left it open ended.
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If you're worried about the fact that the doctor is female, which I did kind of get the hint with what you said, then don't worry. She's trained to deal with all sorts so just because she's a woman shouldn't cause you any undue worry.
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I was being negative about that one doctor not the good one I was getting at the rest arent that emotive but one is good but shes only in once a week(as it stands a Friday)

But I wrote that on purpose a bit as I knew someone would say something like you said as I deliberatly left it open ended.
So you deliberately left it open-ended to provoke a reaction? You're too cool, and so mature.
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Just buy some viagra and aim for the right hole man.
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So you deliberately left it open-ended to provoke a reaction? You're too cool, and so mature.
Not to provoke a reaction but was curious to see if people would reply in the way I thought which they(you) did

I was going to write "I'll see her anyway when shes in" but wanted to see if people realised that or not without me having to come out and say it
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Not to provoke a reaction but was curious to see if people would reply in the way I thought which they(you) did

I was going to write "I'll see her anyway when shes in" but wanted to see if people realised that or not without me having to come out and say it
I'm sorry, what I meant was to provoke a certain reaction i.e. the one you expected, but I didn't type that because I wanted to see if you would
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realise that or not without me having to come out and say it
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