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Ah. I feel embarrassed because...

Today I met up with sixth form friends and whenever they ask me about uni because I moved out far from home I get comments such as

“How high is your body count”
“You must be getting lots of action”.

Truth is that I am a virgin. Today I accidentally blurted out that I didn’t get any action last year because their question was direct. I felt pretty embarrassed.

I am not religious or waiting for marriage. It’s just that I don’t enjoy clubbing and last year in university I had bigger issues such as a literal eating disorder and constantly feeling worthless. Also like I said clubbing just doesn’t work for me and tbh I wouldn’t want to pull under the influence of alcohol anyway.

Any tips for next year?
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how did your friends react when u said you're a virgin
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is it normal to be an LNER at 20?
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Normal or abnormal would be the wrong word to describe things.

It's not right or wrong - one should not be stereotyped about when they have lost their virginity.

People have different circumstances and it is not something to be ashmed of.

Look for someone you like and someone who likes you, and only give your virginity to someone who deserves it.

Good luck!
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how did your friends react when u said you're a virgin
I don’t know I just felt an aura of disappointment/surprise? The topic didn’t continue I’m probs just overthinking lol.

my other friends asked me if my body count is double digits and I usually give vague answers to those type of questions
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I don’t know I just felt an aura of disappointment/surprise? The topic didn’t continue I’m probs just overthinking lol.

my other friends asked me if my body count is double digits and I usually give vague answers to those type of questions
Honestly body count means nothing if you don't have good relationships with those people.
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I don't find slutty-ness an admirable trait - so well done.
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I am a virgin too but it's harder being gay.
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Ah. I feel embarrassed because...

Today I met up with sixth form friends and whenever they ask me about uni because I moved out far from home I get comments such as

“How high is your body count”
“You must be getting lots of action”.

Truth is that I am a virgin. Today I accidentally blurted out that I didn’t get any action last year because their question was direct. I felt pretty embarrassed.

I am not religious or waiting for marriage. It’s just that I don’t enjoy clubbing and last year in university I had bigger issues such as a literal eating disorder and constantly feeling worthless. Also like I said clubbing just doesn’t work for me and tbh I wouldn’t want to pull under the influence of alcohol anyway.

Any tips for next year?
Are you a girl or boy, just curious?

Most of my friends have just finished 1st year and most are still virgins (but that's just the area i'm from, I went to a girls' school to).

Nothing to be ashamed of.
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Are you a girl or boy, just curious?

Most of my friends have just finished 1st year and most are still virgins (but that's just the area i'm from, I went to a girls' school to).

Nothing to be ashamed of.
I’m a guy
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it's not bad. Especially as it was your choice. Doesn't sound like you were trying really hard and still nobody wanted to. Would be a bit more embarrassing if they thought you were super desperate to do it imo. I'm 19 and still a virgin. If my close friends ask me I tell them the truth, cos loads of them are virgins too. Once somebody at work asked me so I told them i had slept with 1 person as they don't know that i've never had a boyfriend so I lied and said I had 1 boyfriend a couple of years ago. I'd personally prefer if my first boyfriend wasn't super sexually experienced as it's a bit embarrassing if I tell him I'm a virgin but he's had sex with like 50 people.
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