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Made it a promise to myself to never use dating apps as the women flake or waste your time generally and meeting women in person is impossible as they all stick to their little groups wear earphones or don’t want to be approached NO! I’m SCREWED! #forever alone 4 life
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(Original post by TwinklestarIIV)
Made it a promise to myself to never use dating apps as the women flake or waste your time generally and meeting women in person is impossible as they all stick to their little groups wear earphones or don’t want to be approached NO! I’m SCREWED! #forever alone 4 life
if every women does something that annoys you...maybe you're the problem
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Not always. I'm a woman and I never flaked unless the guy became weird. Generally I would make the first move and arrange a date within days of first chatting. So not all women are there to waste time or flake.
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Wasn’t it established on a previous thread that you claim disability benefits?

You’ve made this same thread multiple times and ignore all advice given, itzpj96 or whatever your original name was
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That's not something I've ever had to worry about.
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you've said this before but you always go back to dating apps...

if you won't change and start doing the suggestions that people are making instead of making excuses then yes, I can see you being forever alone.
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(Original post by heartbreaker666)
if every women does something annoy you...maybe you're the problem
Nah had many guys complain about the same thing thanks for the tip though
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Not always. I'm a woman and I never flaked unless the guy became weird. Generally I would make the first move and arrange a date within days of first chatting. So not all women are there to waste time or flake.
Women defiantly do flake! And it’s not my approach I never mention sex or become they still flake or end up ignoring meh. *shrugs*
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Not always. I'm a woman and I never flaked unless the guy became weird.

Do you live in London though

Women like this actually don't exist in London.

OP is in London.
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Women defiantly do flake! And it’s not my approach I never mention sex or become they still flake or end up ignoring meh. *shrugs*
Of course some will. But not all. Imo I would ignore guys if they were boring or if I wasn't attracted to them. So it may just be that.
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you've said this before but you always go back to dating apps...

if you won't change and start doing the suggestions that people are making instead of making excuses then yes, I can see you being forever alone.
It’s not a choice there’s no instruction no solutions and nothing works.... I’m not on dating apps but everywhere is a sausage fests everyone is in groups it’s impossible To meet women outside the house I know I go out everyday they wear ear buds or stay in groups
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Do you live in London though

Women like this actually don't exist in London.

OP is in London.
No they don’t they are all the same in london
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Do you live in London though

Women like this actually don't exist in London.

OP is in London.
I live in Glasgow now but I'm from London and I visit a lot for family. I did most of my dating in London tbh so they do exist. I'm not denying that women do flake though - I've had friends openly admit that they're only on dating sites etc purely for attention. Just weird to me.
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It’s impossible to meet women litreally I went out last week everyone is in groups and wear earphones
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(Original post by Precious Illusions)
I live in Glasgow now but I'm from London and I visit a lot for family. I did most of my dating in London tbh so they do exist. I'm not denying that women do flake though - I've had friends openly admit that they're only on dating sites etc purely for attention. Just weird to me.



You need to come back to London.

Not for my sake, but for guys like OP who still have to live there lol
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It’s impossible to meet women litreally I went out last week everyone is in groups and wear earphones
In addition to the speed dating I suggested to you in PM ..what about hitting on a checkout girl or someone in your local store.

build up a bit of rapport over a couple of weeks and then if she seems receptive ask her out
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I don't handle it, nothing to handle
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there's also lock and key parties which speed dating sites often do.

https://www.originaldating.com/frequ...k-key-parties/


which might actually be better than speed dating as with speed dating there are times when you find a girl who seems into you, but you then have to get up and talk to someone else every 4 minutes. This looses momentum and it's easy for any connections built to dissipate if you've only talked for a short while and are meeting many people.

At a lock and key party if you find a match you might be able to potentially hog her for the whole night as i don't think there's anything compelling you to switch partners.

My strategy would be to start working the room and find a girl i'm quite into who is also seeming quite into me, then tell her she's the favourite person i've met so far and i'd like to stop rotating and start getting to know her and ask her if she feels the same way? if no then that's ok, i leave her and start looking again. if yes I stay with her the whole knight, politely telling men who approach her to f**k off as we've decided we've had a match. This will c0ck block her from meeting too much of the competiton and have a resonable chance of leading to a date sometime.

If you get greedy and just try to put eggs in every girls basket and hit on as much girls as possible and not really concentrate on one you're not really making any solid connections, and are also more vulnerable to males who wish to usurp you.

anyways, you've had two suggestions. speed dating, along with lock and key parties. also a strategy, and a link to lock and key parties in London [the site also does speed dating events]

So there's no excuse at all really for you to not try this. It's something you have not tried.

Now get to it.
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With regards to online dating just be glad you are actually meeting the girls even if some flake. A lot of men cannot even get a date online.

As for meeting women in RL it is ultimately a numbers game in pubs and relatively quiet bars.

Your best other chance is to use socialising websites to attend society events.

Obviously for first port of call should be the gym. Like most things getting women comes down among other things to supply and demand. If you don't have the face of Brad Pitt then you need to get a body that more women desire than men have.
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(Original post by Rakas21)
With regards to online dating just be glad you are actually meeting the girls even if some flake. A lot of men cannot even get a date online.

As for meeting women in RL it is ultimately a numbers game in pubs and relatively quiet bars.

Your best other chance is to use socialising websites to attend society events.

Obviously for first port of call should be the gym. Like most things getting women comes down among other things to supply and demand. If you don't have the face of Brad Pitt then you need to get a body that more women desire than men have.
Can’t get a date online and everywhere is a sausage fest.... everyone stays in groups
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