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Never had a boyfriend

I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend (I'm straight), I'm really sporty have short hair and am mates with all the boys so everyone just assumes I'm lesbion (that's the conclusion I've come to at least). I love being mates with the boys but sometimes all I want is to be seen as a girl girl. Is this "normal" as I feel like I am the only one who feels like this.
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I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend (I'm straight), I'm really sporty have short hair and am mates with all the boys so everyone just assumes I'm lesbion (that's the conclusion I've come to at least). I love being mates with the boys but sometimes all I want is to be seen as a girl girl. Is this "normal" as I feel like I am the only one who feels like this.


Nah I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend but it doesn't bother me as what the point right now
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hehwhat
12
Nah I don't really see the point right now
You have plenty of time. I’m 17, and my boyfriend causes me as much stress as he does happiness sometimes.
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sweehee
15
yo I'm 18 and no boyfriend yet...
I can tell you girl a few things from a guy's perspective:
1. Most of us guys are puss*s. Seriously. The fear of rejection of rejection is always there - that's why you probably never get asked out (because you don't seem aprochable).
So, what can you do? Approach guys. Like not in a mate-way, but more 'romantic'. Like tell guys "you look good/hot/cute" (there are whole threads on TSR whether you should use cute or hot but it doesn't really matter). And: Every guy likes to be approached by a girl. Even if you consider yourself not attractive.
2. Rumours. If there is ever the rumour out that you are lesbian, practically all guys will stop approaching you in a romantic way (because fear of rejection is even higher; it would be 100% if you really only liked other girls). So, what can you do? Ask a guy out! Lol. Even if he says no or whatever, people will at least know that you like guys (too).
3. Looks. Yes. Looks play a huge role for guys (because thats basically how biology works). So just dress a bit 'girlier' if you want to attract more guys. (You dont have to dress more 'girlier', actually; just don't wear men's clothes, thats a huge turnoff for most guys)
TL;DR: Be approachable. Approach and compliment guys. Look good.
So I wish you best of luck
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UWS
21
Oh boy, the ages just get younger. Soon we'll have 11 year olds making threads about never having a boyfriend.
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ml55
21
yo you're 15 dw worry about it go play with beyblades or smthn
You have plenty of time. Have fun and enjoy your life.

Go out, flirt with boys if you wish to have a boyfriend.
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Anonymous #1
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Thanks for the advice and comments
There are others!!!
Go willy-hunting in college, best time of your life

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