in love with someone i shouldn't like Watch

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I have been in love with this boy for about 5 years; I'm almost 19 so it's been all the way through secondary school. In this time, he has had a couple of other girlfriends; he has a girlfriend at the moment who also happens to be one of my friends. In between girlfriends, he has told me he loved me, that he thinks I am beautiful etc etc on many occasions across the years. Even when I see him now there is an undeniable connection that my other friends have noticed. Last year (before he got with his current gf) he and I kissed at a party. Since then, his gf has been acting cold to me and my other friends have said that she probably thinks Im still a threat. Does this sound plausible?

I should add as well that before they got together, he said he didnt find *girlfriends name* attractive; but still consistently said he thought that i was beautiful. Does it sound like he could have had feelings for me? Could he still? I have also heard from friends that he is always fiercely protective of me when Im not around - more than his other friends - even now!! They have been together for a year but i do not believe he loves her. Should I tell him how I feel before I go to uni?

Please help, I am so conflicted
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I have been in love with this boy for about 5 years; I'm almost 19 so it's been all the way through secondary school. In this time, he has had a couple of other girlfriends; he has a girlfriend at the moment who also happens to be one of my friends. In between girlfriends, he has told me he loved me, that he thinks I am beautiful etc etc on many occasions across the years. Even when I see him now there is an undeniable connection that my other friends have noticed. Last year (before he got with his current gf) he and I kissed at a party. Since then, his gf has been acting cold to me and my other friends have said that she probably thinks Im still a threat. Does this sound plausible?

I should add as well that before they got together, he said he didnt find *girlfriends name* attractive; but still consistently said he thought that i was beautiful. Does it sound like he could have had feelings for me? Could he still? I have also heard from friends that he is always fiercely protective of me when Im not around - more than his other friends - even now!! They have been together for a year but i do not believe he loves her. Should I tell him how I feel before I go to uni?

Please help, I am so conflicted
I think you should tell him as if you don't you might regret it in the future
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It is his problem and at uni you would find other guys.
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Not even that but if he does like you, he should just be plain out honest instead of leading his current gf on.
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I think you should tell him as if you don't you might regret it in the future
I think so too, thank you
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Not even that but if he does like you, he should just be plain out honest instead of leading his current gf on.
That is super true.
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Not even that but if he does like you, he should just be plain out honest instead of leading his current gf on.
yeah thats true, i wouldnt wanna ruin his relationship but at the same time, theres definitely a connection between us ya know?
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yeah thats true, i wouldnt wanna ruin his relationship but at the same time, theres definitely a connection between us ya know?
Tell him then, be honest and if he is like no, just leave it.
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yeah thats true, i wouldnt wanna ruin his relationship but at the same time, theres definitely a connection between us ya know?
If he does like you, then his current relationship was bound to crash from the beginning
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If he does like you, then his current relationship was bound to crash from the beginning
thats a good point, youre right
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I have been in love with this boy for about 5 years; I'm almost 19 so it's been all the way through secondary school. In this time, he has had a couple of other girlfriends; he has a girlfriend at the moment who also happens to be one of my friends. In between girlfriends, he has told me he loved me, that he thinks I am beautiful etc etc on many occasions across the years. Even when I see him now there is an undeniable connection that my other friends have noticed. Last year (before he got with his current gf) he and I kissed at a party. Since then, his gf has been acting cold to me and my other friends have said that she probably thinks Im still a threat. Does this sound plausible?

I should add as well that before they got together, he said he didnt find *girlfriends name* attractive; but still consistently said he thought that i was beautiful. Does it sound like he could have had feelings for me? Could he still? I have also heard from friends that he is always fiercely protective of me when Im not around - more than his other friends - even now!! They have been together for a year but i do not believe he loves her. Should I tell him how I feel before I go to uni?

Please help, I am so conflicted
you may as well tell him or you may regret it. if your friendship matters to you more though, i wouldn't tell him. he seems kind of manipulative and douchey though and that he likes to play with people's feeling.
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you may as well tell him or you may regret it. if your friendship matters to you more though, i wouldn't tell him. he seems kind of manipulative and douchey though and that he likes to play with people's feeling.
he is the loveliest guy ive ever met, i didnt mean to make him sound like a douchebag:/ and tbh my friendship with her has deteriorated recently and i care about him more than her, so yeah i think i might tell him
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Why did you two not get together if you knew he was attracted to you when he was single?
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Why did you two not get together if you knew he was attracted to you when he was single?
i think we were both too scared to admit it, and we didnt want to ruin our friendship. now that im leaving though, im thinking i should just be honest with him
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