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my parents are christians but i'm an agnostic
I think your parents want you to identically replicate their lifestyle choices and bring up your children the same way that they raised you.
Do you want to have a wife and children?

It sounds like your parents are pushing you to marry a religious church attending woman from a similar ethnic and religious background.
So that they will see their grandchildren being brought up to follow the same rules and traditions that your parents taught you when you were growing up.
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(Original post by ANM775)
It would help if you be his girlfriend
Err.. Why exactly would that help?
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You’re not asking the right question. You’re addicted to sleeping with random girls because it distracts you from your depression and loneliness. You seem to feel worse afterwards and it doesn’t fix anything, so you should try to replace it with other activities. Seek counselling if you can’t do it alone.

This comes down to a low self-esteem. You are worthy of so much more and you can be happy. I have a crappy family as well but I’m determined to be happy. Value yourself and other people will value you. Everyone has mental health struggles.
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(Original post by londonmyst)
I think your parents want you to identically replicate their lifestyle choices and bring up your children the same way that they raised you.
Do you want to have a wife and children?

It sounds like your parents are pushing you to marry a religious church attending woman from a similar ethnic and religious background.
So that they will see their grandchildren being brought up to follow the same rules and traditions that your parents taught you when you were growing up.
Finally someone gets it...

I don't think i can get a wife as i am autistic and depressed. I think i really just wanna while away time and just go travelling as a loner.
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(Original post by Fermion.)
Err.. Why exactly would that help?
exactly.
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(Original post by Fermion.)
Err.. Why exactly would that help?
He would be a lot happier and probably stop sleeping with random girls and escourts
His mom would be happy too.

not really your problem though, so i wasn't seriously expecting you to be a good samaritan and be his gf. Just putting it out there lol
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Finally someone gets it...

I don't think i can get a wife as i am autistic and depressed. I think i really just wanna while away time and just go travelling as a loner.
Focus on your ambitions and what you want- your travel plans.
Which countries do you want to visit, what places/events/cultures do you want to experience, how are you going to collect memories of your travels.
The more you start planning for your own dreams and future life, the less time you will have for boredom or frustration.
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(Original post by ANM775)
He would be a lot happier and probably stop sleeping with random girls and escourts
His mom would be happy too.

not really your problem though, so i wasn't seriously expecting you to be a good samaritan and be his gf. Just putting it out there lol
I’ll take that as a compliment
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I am in my mid 20s. An african who grew up in south london. I have been receiving pressure from my parents ever since i started university 4 years ago to get a girlfriend. I tell them no, i can't get a girlfriend, im ****ing autistic and have severe depression. My family are homophobic and my mum thinks i'm gay because i have never had a gf

I can't get a girlfriend, i have no friends, why would a girl want me? My parents know im a loner. Also black girls really really don't like me and my parents are racist to other countries.

I lost my virginity and i enjoy ****ing random girls (who are often eastern European girls) and spending on escort. It helps my loneliness and my depression. If i told my parents what i was doing, i would be finished.

What the hell should i do to my ****** parents to leave me alone. I should have ****ed off after graduation but now im depressed again in my home. I'm also depressed in London because i have no friends

Anyway the debate is would u date a guy who ****s escorts or is a loner?
Only if i wanted random sex with no commitment.
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Only if i wanted random sex with no commitment.
Your a girl?? I always thought you was a guy
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Your a girl?? I always thought you was a guy
why do you think im a girl?
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