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My 💍 Spits on me and verbally abuses me in bed. I've heard for a ons that's unacceptable but should I put up with it . MEN PLEASE ANSWER . Is he expressing his true feelings to me , he's a bit dominant when we first met me lied about his height giving himself an extra 5 inches from 5,6 - 5'11 in only 5'0 so I wasn't aware of the difference he also pins me up against walls ? Does he have an inferiority complex or he just doesn't respect me . Thankyou for the girl who private messaged me from my last thread and I have looked into other helplines , thanks so much x
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dominant at 5ft 6?! pftttt

sorry.

tbh now (seriously), I think his height might be one of the reasons he feels the need to dominate you- since he feels inferior to other (taller) men and women. as a guy, i think its unacceptable (in the heat of the moment once ok but for it to be a constant habit hell no). sucks that your married to this douche.
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Overcompensating short man syndrome
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I’m honestly confused cuz I swear you went around full of pride saying you’re some perfect human being with the perfect husband and quiet ass life being a nikabi. Why in the world is your trolling inconsistent smh. The least you could do is keep that pridefully shameless front.
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He doesn't respect you.
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Here’s some advice: Ex-husband.
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I’m honestly confused cuz I swear you went around full of pride saying you’re some perfect human being with the perfect husband and quiet ass life being a nikabi. Why in the world is your trolling inconsistent smh. The least you could do is keep that pridefully shameless front
End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍
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Probably trying to compensate for a teeny tiny todger
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End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍
Getting married at 19 is an accomplishment????
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Probably trying to compensate for a teeny tiny ****
Cosmopolitan has never let me down in regards to **** and marital issues before and It's true what they say small feet =small *^^ Anyways I just wanted to know If I was being abused out of hatred because I still love him , i did marry him after all
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End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍
Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.
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Half your deen? Didn’t you say he lied to you before you guys met about his age? Love, you basically dated or something before this marriage so clearly that doesn’t sound halal, sounds like you full on experienced the fun before marrying and now dealing with the consequence smh. ‘successful man,’ is this really the time to show off your husband when you’re moaning about his spitting on you - really?? You’re praising over this guy who’s mistreating you? Please, I want you to educate yourself about what a happy life is, not a successful one. And regardless of his being successful, it seems you’re not on the same range as you said you’re always quiet and can’t even socialise properly. This doesn’t look that successful on your side. I hope the best for you in the future, love x
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End of the day aim still anonymous to Be married to a successful man At 19 is an accomplishment and as long advice in anonymous I will continue to seek help , again I'm better than I was before but I'm not a saint . To be honest I'm a victim but Atleast I've completed half my deen at such a young age SubhanAllah 💍
Marrying is not an accomplishment you foolish girl.

The fact that u think a marriage is an accomplishment in ur life just tells what kind of person you are and how much you think you mount to.

Anyone can marry, even stupid and evil people find ppl to marry and you’ve unfortunately ending up marrying a stupid and cruel person.
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Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.
Exactly what I was thinking 😂😂 preach
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I’m not saying to forget your deen etc but I think you’re still living with traditional thoughts as if you need a husband to be happy, and worse , just some random person that sounds like a douche, as your husband
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Getting married at 19 is an accomplishment????
Tell me about it. How pathetic. Anyone could get married.
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Marrying isn’t half your deen 💀💀💀

The five pillars of Islam and the Koran is.

Leave this guy, Islam permits divorce when there is abuse and guess what? you’re a victim of abuse. What he’s doing is considered domestic abuse.

Successful man? You sound like a gold digger lmao

I honestly dislike women like you who look at a man’s hand to feed herself and can’t be bothered to do anything with herself as a human being. What are you without your husband then?

Go and learn to respect and love yourself

Divorce him before you end up having kids and it gets harder for you to leave.

It starts with spitting and pushing to pinching and kicking.
Successful as in he gives charity he used to be a sinner but has repented , he's successful in the eyes of Allah stop jumping to assumptions, thanks for the advice At the ends but the abuse is in the bedroom , he isn't actually a bad person and as his wife I have to fulfill his needs same him to me , no ?
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Tell me about it. How pathetic. Anyone could get married.
In Islam yes because it stops the temptation of sin . The younger the better . It's like a virus catch it whilst sits early . Basically not sinning is the accomplishment
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Successful as in he gives charity he used to be a sinner but has repented , he's successful in the eyes of Allah stop jumping to assumptions, thanks for the advice At the ends but the abuse is in the bedroom , he isn't actually a bad person and as his wife I have to fulfill his needs same him to me , no ?
It’s good he does charity but I don’t think that overcomes his problems. And how can you so easily say he’s successful in the eyes of Allah, when you were just saying he basically treats you like sh*t
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In Islam yes because it stops the temptation of sin . The younger the better . It's like a virus catch it whilst sits early . Basically not sinning is the accomplishment
If you’re comparing marriage to a virus then it’s clear you’ve married for the sake of marrying anyone
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