i can't orgasm :/ Watch
I'm a 21 year old female college student and I've been with intimate my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. We have sex regularly and I really enjoy it, but I've never had an orgasm. I've had 3 sexual partners before him, and I didn't have an orgasm with them either. I've tried using a tiny vibrator by myself and with my boyfriend, which definitely gave me more stimulation, but STILL I didn't have an orgasm. Maybe I'm masturbating wrong??? I don't really know what to do at this point and I'm starting to lose hope as I know that it just doesn't happen for some women HELP!
I'd encourage you to read up on the literature, practice by yourself and as suggested above try to move the focus on climax from relaxation and sexual excitement, instead.
Most females focus on clitoral stimulation for reaching orgasm but everyone is different. Listen to your body and explore different things to see what works for you.