17 and 23

Wait...so how old are you now, and how old were you when you first started going out

First you need to decide whether or not you want your mum back in your life.
If you decide to give her a chance, you need to make it very clear that it's on your terms, and you won't tolerate any negativity from her, especially in regards to your relationship with your bf. Don't be afraid to shoot her down and tell her to keep her hatred to herself, or cut ties again if she starts saying anything negative or tries to come between you and your bf. Your mum either accepts that you're with someone who you love and want to be with, or she can do one.
You're 18 years old now, legally an adult, and can do what you want with your life. As long as you're safe, happy, and healthy, no-one has any right to say anything against your relationship.

i’ve never felt so safe and happy in my entire life, this really helps as i’ve been worried about figuring out how to give her a second chance; thank you!

kicking you out like that was unforgivable imo

That's not a reason to kick someone out.

If I were in your shoes I would tell her to F*** off, and say I want nothing to do with her

So where would you draw a line? What if a daughter of 17 years is seeing a 37 year old man, calls her mother a c**t for trying to stop her going out late at night to see him? She chucked her daughter out for one night and her 37 year old fella suddenly got cold feet after the girl demanded to live with him and the girl learnt her lesson. Her mother took her back but if you don't give your parents the respect they deserve then you will learn the hard way!

So where would you draw a line? What if a daughter of 17 years is seeing a 37 year old man, calls her mother a c**t for trying to stop her going out late at night to see him? She chucked her daughter out for one night and her 37 year old fella suddenly got cold feet after the girl demanded to live with him and the girl learnt her lesson. Her mother took her back but if you don't give your parents the respect they deserve then you will learn the hard way!

still unforgivable.

17 is past the legal age of consent but not an adult. You can't throw out under 18s

i hope this isn’t supposed to link back to my original issue too! i never insulted my mother and i hadent even ‘slept with’ my boyfriend until the start of this year! she refused to meet him and told me i wasn’t coming back home until i ditched him. sorry if this wasn’t directed to me in any way!!

I'm judging you or anyone else only each circumstance is individual and no one knows the full story. I am only stating the law and that is a parent can throw out their child from 16 years old and that applies all situations, right or wrong.

I say again! Yes you can be thrown out of your family home at the age of 16! If you don't treat your parent/s with respect and abide by their rules it is their right to throw you out as from 16 years. That is a fact and no many times you refuse that information it will still remain a fact.

I am 17 and my boyfriend is 23 - my mother kicked me out because of this, before even learning his name or anything about him, now she is trying to come back into my life???

I mean anyone dating someone under the age of 18 when they're well over is seen as a paedophile

I say again! Yes you can be thrown out of your family home at the age of 16! If you don't treat your parent/s with respect and abide by their rules it is their right to throw you out as from 16 years. That is a fact and no many times you refuse that information it will still remain a fact.