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(Original post by Anonymous)
I think you should go to her and tell her straight (cause she can't ignore you when you're in front of her face) and tell her that you sensed her acting weird in the past few days/weeks and that as the time has passed, your feelings passed too but that you still miss her and want to keep her as a friend.

I feel like a proper conversation would clear things up between you otherwise you might never know what the real reason for her ignoring you was. And if that still didnt change things i guess you just have to move on ://

Hope you will sort things out with her!
as someone who has experience with confrontations I can confirm this will only make them feel more uncomfortable.
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(Original post by retajalshafeii)
She was probably overwhelmed and is scared of hanging out with you too much because she thinks you’re going to catch more feelings. She doesn’t want to hurt you so she thinks keeping distance is the best thing to do until you lose feelings for her.
I agree with this.
I feel.soemtimes.when people stop getting in touch we think they are being rude but in fact they can be doing what they feel is best for us because in your case if you continue to hand around with her, the feeling you have may intensify and your friend does not want you to feel heartbroken hence a bit of distance is the best way to go about it
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(Original post by kekedoyouloveme?)
that's perfect yeahhh that's a good reasonable amount of time for her to like settle in w being back at school, and who knows she might approach you first.... but yeah that's a good time you don't wanna seem overbearing
i hope she does that'll be so much easier
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On the last day of school (last year) I told my straight friend (I'm gay) that I was gay and I had a crush on her, and she said that it's fine and we would still be friends. I didn't see her in the holidays. But since I've been back to School She's been acting a bit distant and has hardly spoke to me, but comes up to me and my friends and talks to them as though she's purposely ignoring me. I don't know if I'm being extremely paranoid, or if I've genuinely made her feel awkward. I still want to be friends with her and I don't even have a crush on her anymore, I need advice what do I do? I want things to go back to normal, I miss our old relationship.
Yh just talk to her; firmly but not in a too upfront manner, tell her you don’t feel for her like that anymore. But if that doesn’t work, you deserve a better friend!!
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