In boxers

Is it normal to *** in underwear (without any clean up)?

I **** before bed and then *** and go to sleep..

It's disgusting and dirty.

Well it's a very intimate question and like many human activities and behaviours is a little bit gross when written down and shared with others.

I'm sure it falls into the category of normal (as is always cleaning up after sexual activity, choosing to masturbating in the shower and choosing not to masturbate and everything else that doesn't cause harm to yourself or others).

Is it hygienic? - no but standard sexual activity with a longterm partner can be even more unhygienic.

Is it an imminent threat to your health? - no.

Is it a longterm threat to your wellbeing? - not unless you have underlying health conditions (a propensity to infection), it's part of a longterm behaviour (not changing sheets, cleaning clothes, bathing, washing hands after going to the toilet) or it's causing you worry or anxiety.

Is it more common practice when you are younger, on your own and if your threshold for hygiene is lower? - yes.

Is it worth worrying about? - no.

Helpful replies only pls - rather than ^^^

How is this unhelpful? Masturbation is normal but choosing to sleep covered in sperm is unhygienic and frankly disgusting. If you are too lazy to clean up, that does not make it normal.

How do you clean up... the tissue/toilet paper usually causes more of a mess than anything else (cuz it sticks to ur p**** and then is hard to carefully remove...) that’s why I don’t bother any more
And the showers/toilets worse for a w*** becuz the *** ends up sticking to ur hands (and the shower drain) - honest help how do u get around this it’s too effing sticky to get it off between ur fingers etc

Baby wipes, then shower. Or just shower using shower gel/soap.

Baby wipes, then shower. Or just shower using shower gel/soap.

Even with shower gel don’t u find the *** still sticks to ur fingers...
and what bout ur thoughts on *** sticking to shower drain..?

I don't seem to have this problem. Maybe your shower isn't very powerful.

choosing to sleep covered in sperm is unhygienic and frankly disgusting.

What about a woman who's trying to have a baby - is she disgusting and unhygienic for not trying to wash the semen away instantly?

Lots of people will have sex and go to sleep without lots of scrubbing in the shower/baby wipes etc. No one familiar with the jokes about 'sleeping in the wet patch'? None of you had a quickie and had to get dressed quickly as soon as the deed is over?

Personally it wouldn't be my choice, but there is no need to be all judgemental about things. Your boxers will be going in the wash anyway (I hope), it's better for the environment than using disposable tissues and wipes - go with the green argument!

What about a woman who's trying to have a baby - is she disgusting and unhygienic for not trying to wash the semen away instantly?

Lots of people will have sex and go to sleep without lots of scrubbing in the shower/baby wipes etc. No one familiar with the jokes about 'sleeping in the wet patch'? None of you had a quickie and had to get dressed quickly as soon as the deed is over?

Personally it wouldn't be my choice, but there is no need to be all judgemental about things. Your boxers will be going in the wash anyway (I hope), it's better for the environment than using disposable tissues and wipes - go with the green argument!