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I'm 19 and I'm single and have a daughter (she's 2) her mum doesn't see her and she lives with me and my mum.

I take drugs and drink and my mum thinks it's her right to tell me not to. It's hard to be a single dad and I'm gay (not told anyone but it's probably obvious cos Ive never had a girlfriend ). I was drunk when I had sex to conceive my daughter

My mum thinks I do it for fun and stuff when I don't it's just so hard
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I think your mum is perfectly in her right to tell you that you shouldn't be drinking or taking drugs when you're responsible for looking after a child, FWIW.
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(Original post by xoxAngel_Kxox)
I think your mum is perfectly in her right to tell you that you shouldn't be drinking or taking drugs when you're responsible for looking after a child, FWIW.
I don't when I'm looking after her i do it when she's in bed
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And idk why people keep asking when I'm getting a girlfriend
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And I just feel like I'm a terrible dad
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Poor attempt at a troll.
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how can you be that drunk you forget you’re gay?
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
how can you be that drunk you forget you’re gay?
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(Original post by Jamie_1712)
Poor attempt at a troll.
This isn't a troll

(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
how can you be that drunk you forget you’re gay?
I wasn't 100% sure I was gay
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(Original post by Anonymous)
This isn't a troll


I wasn't 100% sure I was gay
You try to get sober and get some professional help. Being a single dad isn’t easy at all i know. don’t give up, there’s always a solution to every problem
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
You try to get sober and get some professional help. Being a single dad isn’t easy at all i know. don’t give up, there’s always a solution to every problem
My mum said to go to the doctors for counselling but I don't want to because social services will be involved
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My mum said to go to the doctors for counselling but I don't want to because social services will be involved
i know it’s really difficult. but you have to be strong for your daughter and for yourself. you have to do something! if the social services get involved, then let them. you need to get sober, you need professional help.
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
i know it’s really difficult. but you have to be strong for your daughter and for yourself. you have to do something! if the social services get involved, then let them. you need to get sober, you need professional help.
I know I need help but if social services got involved they would probably take her off me because they would think she's in danger
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I know I need help but if social services got involved they would probably take her off me because they would think she's in danger
But you doing drugs can really mess up your head. So, you need to think of her future. Just let it happen and when you’ve become sober, maybe they’ll let you have her back?
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
But you doing drugs can really mess up your head. So, you need to think of her future. Just let it happen and when you’ve become sober, maybe they’ll let you have her back?
I don't want to ruin her future but if they took her i dont know if they would let me have back
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I don't want to ruin her future but if they took her i dont know if they would let me have back
you’re too young and you’re obviously struggling.
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
you’re too young and you’re obviously struggling.
I am a struggling but if she got taken off me then she wouldn't have parents at all because her mum was going to put her up for adoption but I told her not to and that id look after her
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I am a struggling but if she got taken off me then she wouldn't have parents at all because her mum was going to put her up for adoption but I told her not to and that id look after her
she would have parents and hopefully caring adopted parents. but you’re not dealing with it well, taking drugs is not helping you. it is slowly destroying you. you need to think of yourself too. your daughter will hopefully be with loving people while you sort yourself out and your future
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
she would have parents and hopefully caring adopted parents. but you’re not dealing with it well, taking drugs is not helping you. it is slowly destroying you. you need to think of yourself too. your daughter will hopefully be with loving people while you sort yourself out and your future
he could take the kid to the dumping ground. mike gonna take real good care of the kid
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(Original post by NoTearsLeftToCry)
she would have parents and hopefully caring adopted parents. but you’re not dealing with it well, taking drugs is not helping you. it is slowly destroying you. you need to think of yourself too. your daughter will hopefully be with loving people while you sort yourself out and your future
I just feel like I failed her and that if she got taken away then I didn't do a good job looking after her and I would feel guilty
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