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I’m only 12 and I am a 32 D , I hate my boobs and I want to get them removed/reduced but I don’t know how to tell my parents , I’m also worried that I won’t be able to get it because I’m they are too small I’ve extremely self conscious when I do sports and wear tight shirts . I just realised this now but I’ve grown my hair to my bum just to try and cover them , what should I do ?
Different people grow at different rates and that's normal. While my friend had boobs at 12, I didn't get above an A cup until I was 16 or 17. By the time we were 15, I was the self conscious one because I was completely flat chested.
In the mean time, have you tried sports bras? Unlike conventional bras they tend to squash you in a bit. Wearing slightly looser clothing can also make your boobs look smaller (and seems to be in the shops just now - bonus).
Final piece of advice is to talk about it. Mums really do know quite a lot (much as we hate to admit it) and yours might have gone through the same thing. Sometimes having a good chat can make a difference to put your mind at ease.