The relationship with my mum is over Watch
Today she told me he is spending the night, I stormed out the house for a while and after a long argument on the phone and threatening police involvement if I don’t come home, I am now back. I told her that if she lets him stay the night my relationship with her is done, we have been getting along fine over the past few weeks and I was soon to be in counselling to sort out my issues. I’m done with that now.
The main reason I don’t want him here is because she doesn’t have a very good history with men most of which where abusive is one way or another. She swears he’s different but I don’t trust her at all.
If he spends the night I’m done with her. I will never try to get along with her ever again.
if you're a girl stay at my house
I understand that you want to protect your mom... but I don't think it's your place to tell her if her boyfriend can or can't spend the night. On top of that you can't end your relationship with your mom over some stupid boyfriend! Tell her how you really feel about the situation!
I don’t wanna protect her im protecting me, she can do what she wants, I’m not getting involved in her bs again because I’ve trusted her in the past and it always goes wrong.
How old are you? Because no matter how ****ed up her actions may be, your mom is your mom. And it's not your role to tell her who can and can't come over. And that's it! Communicate! Tell her how you really feel! Tell her why you want to protect yourself, why it makes you feel the way your feel! That's important.