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have you ever been called ugly by a random stranger and how did you deal?
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Yes.

I shrugged it off and continued with my day
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I’ve been called ugly by my mum so I can handle strangers x
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have you ever been called ugly by a random stranger and how did you deal?
I didn't do anything and just forgot about it, carried on with my day. I don't need to waste my time on what a random stranger thinks.
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Yes.

I shrugged it off and continued with my day
i wish i could do that. what they said to me has turned into an obsession, its on my mind all of the time and i keep getting intrusive thoughts like 'you're ugly' all day, which ruins my confidence and my ability to be happy. I suffer from ocd so this could be why
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dont be ugly
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that person probably would have called anyone out as ugly. i'm sure you were just unlucky to be in his line of sight. also that guy is super pathetic and must have issues of his own
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I didn't do anything and just forgot about it, carried on with my day. I don't need to waste my time on what a random stranger thinks.
do you not worry it could be true and that everyone else thinks the same? especially if its been said to you more than once...
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i wish i could do that. what they said to me has turned into an obsession, its on my mind all of the time and i keep getting intrusive thoughts like 'you're ugly' all day, which ruins my confidence and my ability to be happy. I suffer from ocd so this could be why
I suffer from ocd intrusive thoughts too so I know the feeling. I've come to realise that the voice in my head isn't really me. I mean think about it, where does it come from? Once I realised this it lost it's power over me.

Hope you manage to overcome the thoughts
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No.

If you did that pretty ****ed up. If someone said it to me I'd rinse em. If it was a passing comment, I'd probs be like "what?" Lol
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yh someone asked this kid if this girl was pretty and he said yes and they turned to me and asked him if i was ugly and he said "a little bit" and started laughing and a girl whispered "he isnt lying"
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Yep plenty of times. Been laughed at, told i look like a man (on more than one occasion), had FATT!! yelled at me, been told i look like a dog and other incidents i cant remember
Don't know how i deal with it other than accept it's true
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(Original post by CoolCavy)
Yep plenty of times. Been laughed at, told i look like a man (on more than one occasion), had FATT!! yelled at me, been told i look like a dog and other incidents i cant remember
Don't know how i deal with it other than accept it's true
****ty that you feel this way about yourself. I'm sorry people are such ***** as well, I really do think it says a lot about a person if they feel the need to go out of their way to make a stranger feel bad about themselves. Utter scum.
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do you not worry it could be true and that everyone else thinks the same? especially if its been said to you more than once...
Don't think about it too much - it is just one or two strangers' words. Surround yourself with people who do care about you and treat you well. Don't let this affect your confidence.
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****ty that you feel this way about yourself. I'm sorry people are such ***** as well, I really do think it says a lot about a person if they feel the need to go out of their way to make a stranger feel bad about themselves. Utter scum.
I can't imagine anybody ever calling *you* ugly. So please tell me you're not talking from experience.
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It's how my mum says bye to me every time I step out the door
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Don't think about it too much - it is just one or two strangers' words. Surround yourself with people who do care about you and treat you well. Don't let this affect your confidence.
i was always called ugly in school, .. so this made me think i must really be ugly.
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Did once or twice when I was a teenager when I wasn't very good looking, teenage girls can be b****es. A few super-hot popular girls at school used to tease me as well cause they knew I knew they were way out of my league and were just out to embarrass me in front of people. Got my own back eventually though when I got older and better looking, got a few f*** 'n' chucks outta those sIags after catching up with them on Facebook
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Been called unfashionable by a stranger. I replied why... thank you!
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