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my girlfriend didnt reply for 2 hours at an afterparty when with her friend & last text i had was that it was just her, her mate and 2 boys they only just met.. After 2 hours of ignoring my texts and wouldn't answer the phone just kept hanging up, I text saying "guessing your too busy to reply to me as your with boys you've just met seeing as your not replying and keep hanging up the phone when ring" and she replied then "of course I will because I love you" then phone went of for 5 hours and she's got no explanation for it plus was denying being with boys at all until a told her to read back! I'm 99% positive she must have cheated but just need opinions??
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i know you're nervous and insecure but people generally can be trusted to socialise with the opposite sex without cheating

i also know that it looks like she's ignoring you but you are being persistent when she's out doing her own thing

that said, she might have cheated on you but if she did, you won't help yourself relationship-wise by acting jealous or controlling
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
i know you're nervous and insecure but people generally can be trusted to socialise with the opposite sex without cheating

i also know that it looks like she's ignoring you but you are being persistent when she's out doing her own thing

that said, she might have cheated on you but if she did, you won't help yourself relationship-wise by acting jealous or controlling
We've been together for 3 years and she's never done this before and she's refusing to speak about it at all
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my girlfriend didnt reply for 2 hours at an afterparty when with her friend & last text i had was that it was just her, her mate and 2 boys they only just met.. After 2 hours of ignoring my texts and wouldn't answer the phone just kept hanging up, I text saying "guessing your too busy to reply to me as your with boys you've just met seeing as your not replying and keep hanging up the phone when ring" and she replied then "of course I will because I love you" then phone went of for 5 hours and she's got no explanation for it plus was denying being with boys at all until a told her to read back! I'm 99% positive she must have cheated but just need opinions??
If I'm out socialising, regardless if it's my boyfriend, my boss, my mates, I generally won't reply to them because I don't want to be rude to the friends I'm with.

I'd give her some space to have a nice time most of my friends are boys and a lot of the people I meet when I'm out happen to be boys but wouldn't dream of doing anything!!

I can't be definitive if your girlfriend has cheated or not but that all sounds pretty normal to me
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
i know you're nervous and insecure but people generally can be trusted to socialise with the opposite sex without cheating

i also know that it looks like she's ignoring you but you are being persistent when she's out doing her own thing

that said, she might have cheated on you but if she did, you won't help yourself relationship-wise by acting jealous or controlling
And i didn't message her for well over an hour I tried ringing her a few times 20 mins after the last text then didn't message for atleast an hour n half then sent what I put in the forum n normally she would say don't be silly babe and would normally video call me to prove it but replied what she did then her phone went of for over 5 hours and she's got no explanation for it & she wasn't asleep because when she actually replied 1 this afternoon she said she still hadn't slept then I'd question who the boys where n she kept changing the convo and literally wouldn't answer me
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If I'm out socialising, regardless if it's my boyfriend, my boss, my mates, I generally won't reply to them because I don't want to be rude to the friends I'm with.

I'd give her some space to have a nice time most of my friends are boys and a lot of the people I meet when I'm out happen to be boys but wouldn't dream of doing anything!!

I can't be definitive if your girlfriend has cheated or not but that all sounds pretty normal to me
Yeah but at the time she wasn't out she was back in her flat n was just her, her friend and the 2 boys they just met
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(Original post by daphne_rapidos)
If I'm out socialising, regardless if it's my boyfriend, my boss, my mates, I generally won't reply to them because I don't want to be rude to the friends I'm with.

I'd give her some space to have a nice time most of my friends are boys and a lot of the people I meet when I'm out happen to be boys but wouldn't dream of doing anything!!

I can't be definitive if your girlfriend has cheated or not but that all sounds pretty normal to me
So it's pretty normal for a girlfriend to turn their phone off when back in flat with her mate and 2 random guys then don't hear off her for 5 hours and have no explanation or won't say what happened during those 5 hours
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Yeah but at the time she wasn't out she was back in her flat n was just her, her friend and the 2 boys they just met
I'm sorry, this sounds really rough and hope it all works out.

It might be best to leave this till the morning. I'm sorry if this comes across as patronising at all, I don't mean it this way but everything feels worse when you're tired - she's probably a bit drunk.

Talk about it in the morning when both of your heads are clearer. If it's something that's hurting you, it's always worth bringing up!
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I'm sorry, this sounds really rough and hope it all works out.

It might be best to leave this till the morning. I'm sorry if this comes across as patronising at all, I don't mean it this way but everything feels worse when you're tired - she's probably a bit drunk.

Talk about it in the morning when both of your heads are clearer. If it's something that's hurting you, it's always worth bringing up!
That's the thing it didn't happen tonight it happened 4 yesterday morning then heard of her at 6.45 then nothing until 1 and wouldnt speak about it all day & now she's back out again.. Personally what would you think?
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So it's pretty normal for a girlfriend to turn their phone off when back in flat with her mate and 2 random guys then don't hear off her for 5 hours and have no explanation or won't say what happened during those 5 hours
Plus she's trying to say she doesn't know either of the boys names yet was with them for 7 hours all in all and she saying she wasn't drunk either. Obviously hiding something I think
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
i know you're nervous and insecure but people generally can be trusted to socialise with the opposite sex without cheating

i also know that it looks like she's ignoring you but you are being persistent when she's out doing her own thing

that said, she might have cheated on you but if she did, you won't help yourself relationship-wise by acting jealous or controlling
Plus she saved recordings of this guy and took them on sly cause soon as he looked at camera she stopped recording n they just met him.. is it strange for girls with boyfriend's to record and save videos of other men they speak to when out
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