So, I will admit. I think I am. And this is not around hook-ups or whatnot because I've never successfully been able to meet someone on there. Most people just seem to be 'All talk, no action' It always just ends up remaining in the talking stage, no progression.
I only got tinder back in April. I did so because my mates thought it would be good for my confidence--they kinda assumed that it would be good for a bit of fun, raise my confidence and then I'd delete it.
From it I got speaking to one guy for 5 weeks before he ghosted me before we were supposed to go on a date and then the second guy, we ended up speaking for a month and a bit until things just deflated [you might be familiar with this guy from my last posts, he was a complete di*k head].
I won't lie, tinder has been good for my confidence. It gives me that same confidence I have in clubs when I'm meeting guys there cause I'm pissed and have this confidence.
But, now, that this recent development has happened. I'm still reluctant to just delete the app despite its toxicity and my mate has told me to. She'd told me I've become obsessed with it. And it's true.
I just need to get rid of it but I can't. It's pathetic. I need to be focusing on myself, forget trying to so hard to meet someone. But I feel like I won't meet anyone if I'm not actively looking. But the thing is, that's a lie because I met someone at a work's do, they were clearly interested in me, told me so but I'm just not into them. So, of course, tinder shouldn't be my only option.
I just need some advice, tips to knock me out of this obsession.