How can I tell my girlfriend to tell her ex to stop contacting her or block him?

I would probably ask her to block him if I was in that situation but do whatever you think is right.

He’s been in touch several times with her, and she just doesn’t tell him to stop contacting him. She hasn’t even blocked him.

She has told him about me, but I don’t think that makes a big deal of difference.

I know next to nothing about their relationship.

I feel like the fact she hasn’t told him to stop or hasn’t even blocked him, means she’s leaving the door open.

I don’t even know whether I should tell her to stop answering him or to block him?

That’s what I feel I must do too, but what concerns me is that she hasn’t done it herself, or at the very least told him to stop.


They aren’t friends, they haven’t spoken in years, but she’s left the door open for him to get in touch again.

you have no right to. it's none of your business.

She’s my girlfriend, how is it none of my business??

it's her choice if she wants to keep in touch with him, stop being a control freak.

They aren’t friends, he ditched her without telling her anything years ago, they haven’t spoken for all that time, and she’s not making it clear that she doesn’t want him to contact her.

How do you think you would feel about it?

because she obviously does want him to contact her.
and i wouldn't care.

Well there lies the issue. His intentions are clear to me, and they should be to her. If what you’re saying is true, that it’s obvious she wants him to contact her, it’s a big problem and that she still has feelings for him.

Well there lies the issue. His intentions are clear to me, and they should be to her. If what you’re saying is true, that it’s obvious she wants him to contact her, it’s a big problem and that she still has feelings for him.

He’s been in touch several times with her, and she just doesn’t tell him to stop contacting him. She hasn’t even blocked him.

She has told him about me, but I don’t think that makes a big deal of difference.

I know next to nothing about their relationship.

I feel like the fact she hasn’t told him to stop or hasn’t even blocked him, means she’s leaving the door open.

I don’t even know whether I should tell her to stop answering him or to block him?

Some people remain friends after breaking up, maybe they’re just friends which isn’t crazy. Maybe trust her? And if she does do something then leave her then she clearly isn’t for you or into you. Also what’s the content of their conversations if you know?