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So I’ve never been in a relationship or kissed a girl for that matter... I’d consider myself a 5/10 not ugly not not the best like average.

I was in a gay club with my friend (I’m not gay but their are hot girls there, and good music).

I noticed a really cute girl giving me looks, I was too shy to approach and she kept giving me the looks and even started dancing right next to me in hopes I’d do something but I was too shy.

My mate ended up basically forcing me to say something, but I’m really arkward especially around girls. I just don’t know what to say ever. We ended up dancing for a little while until she asked for my age and she realised I was 18 and she was 21 😂 I got her snapchat etc but haven’t spoken to her with no intentions to do so in the future.

I’m just wondering why tf am I so nervous I’m great around lads and can befriend litteraly anyone but girls are impossible...
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Message me mate.

I’m similar to you like exactly and I would love a chat we might be able to help each other
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haven’t spoken to her with no intentions to do so in the future.
You meet a girl who was showing interest in you, yet you respond like this.

That's why you can't befriend girls.
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im the same with guys, even when they approach me in the club, i just try to find a way to get away. im so socially awkward fml
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im so socially awkward fml
That's fair, in which case clubs might not be the right environment for you to meet people. Are you at uni? You may be better off in more relaxed situations like societies
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That's fair, in which case clubs might not be the right environment for you to meet people. Are you at uni? You may be better off in more relaxed situations like societies
Yeah I’m in uni, which kinda forces me to go to clubs so I can keep the uni friends I have. It is like peer pressure, they drink so I drink to keep up. They go clubbing so I go clubbing to keep my place in the group. Toxic, I know but that’s the only way I know to keep the friends I’ve made at uni
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Yeah I’m in uni, which kinda forces me to go to clubs so I can keep the uni friends I have. It is like peer pressure, they drink so I drink to keep up. They go clubbing so I go clubbing to keep my place in the group. Toxic, I know but that’s the only way I know to keep the friends I’ve made at uni
Ah that's an unfortunate situation. Your best bet is to keep up with that as much as you can, but also join some relaxed societies to meet new people. Once you have another group with people more similar, you can move away from your old friends. You may find it much easier to socialise in that environment
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