Mum going through my things at 20 years old ANNOYED
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I’m really annoyed I’ve just come home and my mum has apparently organised some boxes of hers that be in my room but clearly has gone through my clothes and things in my room. I am 20 years old I understand I live in her house however I feel I deserve some privacy. It’s not even about hiding anything because she won’t find anything unusual in my room I just hate the fact that my mum goes through my clothes and yes even if that’s dirty clothes ready to be washed I find it so uncomfortable whenever I’ve asked her in the past about she says it’s a mess so that’s why she did it. I just feel like going to her and saying why do you do this. Anyone have any suggestions on how to actually handle situations like this. I just feel quite hurt and annoyed. It’s happened so many times now.
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Lock your items if you can or speak to her or move out
Lock your items if you can or speak to her or move out
Moving out is not really an option at the moment. I am however financially dependent. Don’t rely on anything from her financially.
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This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
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This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
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This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
This is a family issue....Why are you posting it online to strangers?
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I’m really annoyed I’ve just come home and my mum has apparently organised some boxes of hers that be in my room but clearly has gone through my clothes and things in my room. I am 20 years old I understand I live in her house however I feel I deserve some privacy. It’s not even about hiding anything because she won’t find anything unusual in my room I just hate the fact that my mum goes through my clothes and yes even if that’s dirty clothes ready to be washed I find it so uncomfortable whenever I’ve asked her in the past about she says it’s a mess so that’s why she did it. I just feel like going to her and saying why do you do this. Anyone have any suggestions on how to actually handle situations like this. I just feel quite hurt and annoyed. It’s happened so many times now.
I’m really annoyed I’ve just come home and my mum has apparently organised some boxes of hers that be in my room but clearly has gone through my clothes and things in my room. I am 20 years old I understand I live in her house however I feel I deserve some privacy. It’s not even about hiding anything because she won’t find anything unusual in my room I just hate the fact that my mum goes through my clothes and yes even if that’s dirty clothes ready to be washed I find it so uncomfortable whenever I’ve asked her in the past about she says it’s a mess so that’s why she did it. I just feel like going to her and saying why do you do this. Anyone have any suggestions on how to actually handle situations like this. I just feel quite hurt and annoyed. It’s happened so many times now.
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Perhaps she is covering up for being nosey and is checking to see if she finds anything to be angry about. Lock away anything you don’t want her to find in bag with a pad lock and hide the key 🔐
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