The Optimal Strategy for Approaching Girls

The opportunity does not pass unless you allow it. To assume that there is only a 2-second window of opportunity after the interest has been indicated is simply a fiction of your mind; an unjustified excuse to conceal a deep-rooted anxiety that will never be resolved with your method.

This approach ought to have been performed right at the start of your session. Instead you relied on an incredibly unreliable method that caused you to squander valuable time and miss out on actual opportunities. That the bulk of the indeterminate indicators of interest you received were from those of whom you considered unsuitable only vindicates one of the objections I raised concerning the effectiveness of your strategy. Until and unless you change tack you will continue to outsource your power, walk on eggshells and be a disservice to your potential always.

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There are major blindspots apparent in your attitude. Firstly, in this session you had encountered no suitable opportunities except one that you lost because your method did not give you the tools necessary for an approach to be performed at the drop of a hat and in different environments. It takes a combination of frequency and volume to develop the mental muscle in order for the approach anxiety to dissipate. Secondly, to expect a higher rate of overall success from a handful of girls briefly looking in your direction is wishful thinking. Its success is strictly contingent to your interpretation of the brief look being unmistaken and for there to be a large volume of suitable girls. Since these conditions barely hold on any consistent basis, the most rational conclusion to draw is that your modus operandi is profoundly suboptimal in its capacity to yield positive results in a short space of time and in its ability to give you the tools necessary to build up your sense of inner worth. To operate from a place of self-worth means that you do not need to acquire abstract permission to perform an approach. Had you approached a high volume of girls in a short space of time, at the very least you'd have developed a degree of skill. Performed on a consistent basis, the conversion rate will automatically yield better odds in a short space of time. To avoid a future repeat of this abysmal experience, the need to feel validated in order to perform an approach must be put to an end.

Why are you linking me to James Tusks video's?
A 9/10 white man who could get laid tommorow simply by posting a few selfies on Tinder?

Imo "game" does not work, or at most it works very rarely. The whole premise of "pick up" is supposed to be that you can get a girl romantically interested in you through "game" who otherwise wouldn't normally be interested in you.

You chastise me for 0 approaches, 0 numbers yesterday.. yet statistically speaking if you had gone out you would have done 10 approaches that wouldn't have a yielded a date either.

If you want to be an approach monkey, get rejected hundreds of times and collect flaky phone numbers all day then cold approaching in the day is the way to go. If you'd like a little more than that, then it means being selective who you approach. I mentioned that I would be approaching considerably less than traditional cold approach because of how selective I was being and there is a possibilty I might not even do an approach ..so it really shouldn't surprise you.

That kind of unsolicited interest is rare during the day, but not as rare is a woman checking you out. which [if you go and talk to her] is going yield more than pure cold approaching.

Some may be unable to relate but I see many similaries with this with forex trading. You can go all gung ho taking every oppertunity the market throws at you that looks like the slightest chance of working out ...and you will end up loosing your shirt. because it's low probability. Or you can sit on your hands and wait for that perfect setup where everything lines up, and it will usually win. waiting for that perfect setup is frustating at times .. and there will be days where you've not seen anything you wish to take, but it pays to wait in the long run..., as when that oppertunity does come it's much more likely to succeed.

The MAJOR flaw in your supposed super strategy is that 99% of men cannot take 300+ rejections in a month.

We are not ****ing robots!

The strategy is, in essence, a cheat code designed for those who desire to cultivate an enriching, abundant dating life in a way that promotes consummate efficiency and rigorous discipline as lifestyle staples in the quest to become a well-rounded, high value male.

2.67 hour Daygame session 4x a week:

Divide 160 min into = 100 min + 60 min
100 min = 20 approaches = 5 min per approach
60 mins = 3 min lag between each approach

20 approaches x 4 days per week = 80 total approaches in a week
80 total approaches x 4 weeks = 320 total approaches in a month

Assume an ultra conservative conversion rate of 5%:

5% of 320 = 16 number closes
5% of 16 = 0.8 yield
0.8 x 4 = 3.2 dates per month

In accordance with this systematic course of action, based on an unexaggerated rate of return, it is plausible to render 20% of the number closes actionable. While it is certainly possible to exceed the estimates presented, it is judicious to remain humble and grounded; to under promise and over deliver. In effect, all it takes is one date out of three acquired to move forward the interaction toward a lay and with whom to establish an intimate connection. In the months that follow, the process is a rinse and repeat to attract one extra girl, or more, gradually each month to add to a handsome rotation of girls long-term.

The preliminary elements required to become a force of nature who can put into effect the demands of this meticulous plan of action comprise the following:

- The ability to devise a workable schedule that enables effective timekeeping to achieve priorities of the day.
- To map out a route or central location at a set time in which the footfall is at its peak.
- A conscious effort to eliminate addictions or habits that inhibit efficacy.
- To embrace the asymmetry between acceptance and rejection, and thus establish a resounding trust that more volume increases the odds for success automatically; which, in turn, serves definitively as an emotional shock absorber for the inevitable interspersed bouts of rejection.
- An unfaltering trust in the process.
- To ingrain a mindset that reframes reality advantageously as a tacit reflection of an inner world whose foundation embodies an unapologetic conviction, a healthy sense of self-entitlement, an acute self-awareness, an outlook of pragmatism, a relentless focus on set objectives, a content disposition, and an excited curiosity for the unknown.
- A recognition that life is an inconsequential game, that its value pertains to its developmental capacity to cultivate inner depth and expansion in consciousness.
- A passion to learn about human nature and the ropes of social dynamics so as to access pure potential for the acquisition of stimulating experiences.
- A conversational template or scaffolding to ensure all essential ingredients for a stimulating exchange are utilised by means of question, assumption and observation; a textbook recall on which to fall back for consistency in quality.
- An unwavering disregard for the insecurity-paranoia fuelled assumption that one's presence, thoughts, intentions and emotions are apparent to any passersby; a recognition that it is nothing more than ego that causes an individual to think that they are anything more than a blip on a radar, anything more than the centre of their own universe.
- To satisfy adequately the needs of the body and mind to forge incremental enhancements that facilitate an unceasing upward spiral.
- A presence of mind and a beauty of spirit.

In closing, the guarantee of success in the described method pivots on the willingness to commit fully, to stick it out initially until the activity becomes habituated. A continual refinement in the ability to adeptly navigate the social interplay between comfort and attraction by means of consistency in application is not a matter of opinion; and thus serves as a definitive blow to pessimism in this respect. For while it is the blunt truth that the one gifted in the looks department can procure more opportunities from casting a wide net on a cross-section of girls, it is as equally true that a person of lesser visual appeal will procure success from a narrower pool of girls whose natural disposition is more favourable to factors pertaining to masculine essence and persona over looks. In the strategy devised above, volume is a key component for radically tapping into the odds for a connection to be realised. It is fundamentally strategised in a style that ensures bang for the buck in combination with efficiency to value time for other pursuits.

In the end, it comes down to a dual choice: either to cultivate controlled aggression and channel it into taking massive action with a reasonable, systematic plan; or to forfeit a plan in exchange for the perpetuation of an unavailing facade and a life of endless coping.

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