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My ex unblocked me after a year what does this mean?

My ex and I dated for about a year. We broke up and he turned into a complete different person. He turned mean and acted like I was a stranger he just wanted rid of when All I was was nice even after the breakup. he blocked me , all my family and friends he met while we were together.

It’s been about a year since the breakup and I all of a sudden he decided to unblock me but not my friends and family. Should I reach out and ask why or leave it as it is ? Why would he suddenly unblock me like this any one have any ideas ? I’m confused he was my first everything I can’t go back with him after he treated me so badly after the breakup but no matter how much I don’t want back with him some part of me still loves him.

I am so confused

Reply 1

Original post by Anonymous
My ex and I dated for about a year. We broke up and he turned into a complete different person. He turned mean and acted like I was a stranger he just wanted rid of when All I was was nice even after the breakup. he blocked me , all my family and friends he met while we were together.

It’s been about a year since the breakup and I all of a sudden he decided to unblock me but not my friends and family. Should I reach out and ask why or leave it as it is ? Why would he suddenly unblock me like this any one have any ideas ? I’m confused he was my first everything I can’t go back with him after he treated me so badly after the breakup but no matter how much I don’t want back with him some part of me still loves him.

I am so confused

I wouldn't get back into contact - things didn't end so well between you and it isn't good for you to keep looking back at your past relationship. Leave things in the past and look forward, concentrate on moving on with your life and finding your happiness.

Reply 2

My viewpoint would say that hes now over whatever he was feeling towards you then (the things that made him ignore you and block you). This does not mean, however, that it's time for you to start a conversation with him again or that he wants to pick up where things left off.

Then again i could be wrong and i wouldnt want to stop you from doing what you feel is right so act on your own accord. My advice to you would be to wait until he messages first and pretend you didnt realise he unblocked you - shows you dont care anymore and guys like what they cant have.

Reply 3

Original post by ymoug
My viewpoint would say that hes now over whatever he was feeling towards you then (the things that made him ignore you and block you). This does not mean, however, that it's time for you to start a conversation with him again or that he wants to pick up where things left off.

Then again i could be wrong and i wouldnt want to stop you from doing what you feel is right so act on your own accord. My advice to you would be to wait until he messages first and pretend you didnt realise he unblocked you - shows you dont care anymore and guys like what they cant have.


Thank you I was planning on just letting him message me first. I’m not the same person I used to be he broke up with me because I got in a fight with a girl and she attacked me so i defended myself. He believed all the lies she told him he wasn’t there to witness what happened

Reply 4

Original post by Anonymous
Thank you I was planning on just letting him message me first. I’m not the same person I used to be he broke up with me because I got in a fight with a girl and she attacked me so i defended myself. He believed all the lies she told him he wasn’t there to witness what happened

You're welcome (:
I need to ask, has he given you the chance to tell him your side of the story or did he block you before you even got the chance?

Reply 5

He tried to break up with me over the phone. I got a concussion so couldn’t really remember what happened that night but I had witnesses and they told me what happened and it all came back to me. He didn’t really want to listen to what I had to say he just ended it I tried it explain that all the things that happened that night. like the fact I was inappropriately touched all night by the same girl I tried to walk away and she blocked my path and attacked me.

Reply 6

Original post by ymoug
You're welcome (:
I need to ask, has he given you the chance to tell him your side of the story or did he block you before you even got the chance?


He didn’t want to listen to what I had to say to be honest because he was just so disgusted by the physical damage I done to her in self defence but he did not care I had a black eye or the fact my eye was cut open. I accepted the break up and didn’t try to get back with him after that. I heard there was a bomb like package found in his uni so ofcourse I was worried tried to message to see if he was okay and he just replied dry. I tried to give him his stuff back, told him he could still use my games on my account etc I was never mean. He met with me told me he loved me , we slept together and then he blocked me not long after.

Reply 7

Original post by Anonymous
He didn’t want to listen to what I had to say to be honest because he was just so disgusted by the physical damage I done to her in self defence but he did not care I had a black eye or the fact my eye was cut open. I accepted the break up and didn’t try to get back with him after that. I heard there was a bomb like package found in his uni so ofcourse I was worried tried to message to see if he was okay and he just replied dry. I tried to give him his stuff back, told him he could still use my games on my account etc I was never mean. He met with me told me he loved me , we slept together and then he blocked me not long after.


All the while I was nice he treated me like ****

Reply 8

Original post by Anonymous
My ex and I dated for about a year. We broke up and he turned into a complete different person. He turned mean and acted like I was a stranger he just wanted rid of when All I was was nice even after the breakup. he blocked me , all my family and friends he met while we were together. It’s been about a year since the breakup and I all of a sudden he decided to unblock me but not my friends and family. Should I reach out and ask why or leave it as it is ? Why would he suddenly unblock me like this any one have any ideas ? I’m confused he was my first everything I can’t go back with him after he treated me so badly after the breakup but no matter how much I don’t want back with him some part of me still loves him. I am so confused
Hey, I know it’s been a while since you posted this, but is there any update? Did you guys speak again or get back together?

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