Nudes? Threatening to Leak them

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If Someone is threatening to leak nudes of me, what can I do? I’m in a relationship with him, however, yesterday he misread a message which I sent in a jokey way as mean being rude to him. After A bit he told me ‘how would you feel if other people saw these nudes’, also today he said to me ‘I want 10K or I’ll post the nudes on instagram and the videos on Youtube’ but then 2 seconds later told me he was joking.


Can anyone please give me advice on how to deal with this? I know If I leave him or be very rude he will flip and do what he threatens.

Please don’t judge me I know I have made a mistake
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Are you above or below the age of 18?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
If Someone is threatening to leak nudes of me, what can I do? I’m in a relationship with him, however, yesterday he misread a message which I sent in a jokey way as mean being rude to him. After A bit he told me ‘how would you feel if other people saw these nudes’, also today he said to me ‘I want 10K or I’ll post the nudes on instagram and the videos on Youtube’ but then 2 seconds later told me he was joking.


Can anyone please give me advice on how to deal with this? I know If I leave him or be very rude he will flip and do what he threatens.

Please don’t judge me I know I have made a mistake
1) Don't send nudes ever.
2) Report him to the police for blackmail (and if youre under 18, distribution of child pornography)
3) Break up with him.
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Is this an online relationship or a real one?
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What's your age? Does he go to your school/uni. Speak to the head teachers/ the police
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Are you above or below the age of 18?
I’m 19
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Is this an online relationship or a real one?

I agree
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Real one

I’m 19 @ uni. No he’s a bit older than me
ur not on anon and call the police if you still have the messages, if you dont they may have to search your phone
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Simple and easy. REPORT HIM because i can tell you it doesn't matter how sweet he becomes and you're towards to him, he will reveal those nude pics sooner or later. So before he uses you and blackmail you do report him. He already threatened you once, don't let him threaten you again.
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(Original post by ProbablyPallas)
1) Don't send nudes ever.
2) Report him to the police for blackmail (and if youre under 18, distribution of child pornography)
3) Break up with him.
What would happen If I reported him? And Yes I know I shouldn’t have. And I’m too scared to break up with him
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(Original post by DeseanDwyer)
ur not on anon and call the police if you still have the messages, if you dont they may have to search your phone
I knoww, i only realised after I posted it, but don’t know how to delete
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What would happen If I reported him? And Yes I know I shouldn’t have. And I’m too scared to break up with him
there'd be an investigation and both your phones would get searched.
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What would happen If I reported him? And Yes I know I shouldn’t have. And I’m too scared to break up with him
He'd be forced to delete them and arrested I imagine. If you're scared to break up with him, tell the police if he's abusive. How old are you both?
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He'd be forced to delete them and arrested I imagine. If you're scared to break up with him, tell the police if he's abusive. How old are you both?
She said shes 19, he's older so 20/21?
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She said shes 19, he's older so 20/21?
I didn't see. Police job then.
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Simple and easy. REPORT HIM because i can tell you it doesn't matter how sweet he becomes and you're towards to him, he will reveal those nude pics sooner or later. So before he uses you and blackmail you do report him. He already threatened you once, don't let him threaten you again.
Do you know what would happen If I reported him? Like what’s the procedure after this please xx
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At the end of the day you're being manipulated and you may not know when you are being manipulated by him.
It will only go downhill, trust me. Make the right decisions.
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If Someone is threatening to leak nudes of me, what can I do? I’m in a relationship with him, however, yesterday he misread a message which I sent in a jokey way as mean being rude to him. After A bit he told me ‘how would you feel if other people saw these nudes’, also today he said to me ‘I want 10K or I’ll post the nudes on instagram and the videos on Youtube’ but then 2 seconds later told me he was joking.


Can anyone please give me advice on how to deal with this? I know If I leave him or be very rude he will flip and do what he threatens.

Please don’t judge me I know I have made a mistake
'Revenge porn' is illegal and there have been convictions over it. If the nudes are made public without your consent then that's a crime.
Realistically if the images are not shared then there's not much really that can come of this.
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(Original post by DeseanDwyer)
there'd be an investigation and both your phones would get searched.
Thanks for telling me. However, this guy Is very dodgy a criminal- I’m scared he may try sort of attack me or do something along the lines of that
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Thanks for telling me. However, this guy Is very dodgy a criminal- I’m scared he may try sort of attack me or do something along the lines of that
Bruh, how do you women end up with people like this.
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