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How Far Would You Go Online?

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Reply 1

SusDev

minim

So if you met a girl online who lives in a completely different part of the world.. say Japan.. pretty much the same age 19-20 and you really like her. Apparently, she likes you too and have some things in common, etc.

How far would you go with this 'relationship'? I'm currently just considering it as 'internet talk' as I don't want to get too involved in this kind of stuff. She asked for reciprocal webcam which I haven't accepted yet but obviously traded pictures, etc.

So what would you do? I'm not that desperate, just looking for opinions, not necessarily advice.

Well obviously

Reply 2

yohaneuano4

It is nothing, less than nothing. Like masturbating with oven gloves on.

Reply 3

minim

squid

What? You've not even seen her on webcam, why are you considering it a relationship? It's a relationship when you're emotionally involved with them, if you simply speak on MSN it's nothing :|

Just go with the flow'

Right, well I used the wrong word. I did put it under inverted commas as I wasn't sure of the right term.

But as I said, I don't want to get very emotionally involved. And it's actually not MSN.. anyways I phoned her lots of times as it's very cheap from here in the UK - 1p per minute.

Reply 4

PoisonDonna

Hmm. Be friends with her sure and whatever, but I doubt getting into a relationship is the best thing. As someone said, just go with the flow :smile:

Reply 5

Keoje

It doesn't work. :rolleyes:

Reply 6

minim

PoisonDonna

Hmm. Be friends with her sure and whatever, but I doubt getting into a relationship is the best thing. As someone said, just go with the flow :smile:

Yeah, I don't really want to get into a relationship.

Oh and what exactly does "go with the flow" mean? I always misunderstand this expression with acting foolishly without thinking :p:

Reply 7

Sanity Panda

Go with the flow.

Internet relationships are hard. They're not impossible though.

Reply 8

silverbolt

talked on MSN and passed the odd photo around and he thinks it a relationship

oh gordon bennet

Reply 9

PoisonDonna

minim

Yeah, I don't really want to get into a relationship.

Oh and what exactly does "go with the flow" mean? I always misunderstand this expression with acting foolishly without thinking :p:

Go with the flow, just sort of don't try to make anything happen, just be relaxed about it all, whatever happens - happens :cool:

Reply 10

minim

PoisonDonna

Go with the flow, just sort of don't try to make anything happen, just be relaxed about it all, whatever happens - happens :cool:

Right.. it's hard though because she always seems to be forcing the flow ^^.

Reply 11

Drewski

It is a relationship. It's just a different kind of relationship.

Relationship isn't a word implying - solely - feelings of love between two people. Bullies have relationships with their victims. Doctors have relationships with their patients.

Nothing wrong with making friends online, getting to knwo them. Different countries makes friendships harder, but not impossible.
I met an ex online, her in Nottingham, me in Manchester [at the time]. I know people from the States and have met a couple of them, too.

Reply 12

PoisonDonna

minim

Right.. it's hard though because she always seems to be forcing the flow ^^.

Ha sorry that comment just made me giggle. What do you mean?

Reply 13

Bear_Grylls

its just a friend, unless she starts next time shes on webcam

Reply 14

Em_maK

I wouldn't have a relationship over the internet :rolleyes:

go outside and meet someone.

Reply 15

OllyThePhilosopher

Personally, I'd go as far as I could. No strings.
You have nothing to lose. Well, except for your MSN virginity...

Reply 16

Shask

You mean like kiddies do in chat rooms?

*snogz*
*snogz bk lol*

I'd say go for it if you're ultimately going to meet in person. There have been uncountable real relationships that have started online, but I don't think that type of cyber-relationship works.

Reply 17

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OllyThePhilosopher

You have nothing to lose. Well, except for your MSN virginity...

Can you get it back by uninstalling MSN?

Reply 18

minim

PoisonDonna

Ha sorry that comment just made me giggle. What do you mean?

Well, she says things like.. I'm home alone or most of the time.. my parents are asleep (+9 hours time difference) and then "Have fixed your webcam yet?". "Nooo...". And then starts asking me sexual things.. :rolleyes: