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I don't like to say 'No' to people is that a bad thing?

I care so much about other people and not hurting them in any way.
I find it really hard to say no to people.

If classmates ask me to help them with school work, I will try to help them, even though I may be struggling with some work myself.
If I'm asked if I am okay I say yes I'm fine even though i may have just cried my eyes out and my heart is aching.

And even for family, if my parents/siblings say something I cant say No.
I feel if I'm told to start a relationship and if I'm going out with someone, and despite me not wanting to be in a relationship and not wanting to marry I won't be able to say No.
If my parents find out that I do not wNt to marry they wont be happy because ofcourse as parents they want me to find a bf and settle down in the future.
I also have Generalised Anxiety disorder.
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Me being me, I would say it's a bad thing. I put myself first, and everyone else third.

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Original post by Anonymous

I don't like to say 'No' to people is that a bad thing?

No.

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