I'm old enough to not let other people affect me when They are being nasty and underhand to me but sometimes I really get fed up with it and think its so unfair that people can be so cruel to other people especially when it's unjustified. I'm always advising other people to ignore bullies and not let it affect you and thats what I've been doing myself but sometimes it just really gets to me and i feel so angry about how I'm being treated at work. My colleagues arr so lovely appreciative of how hard i work and they respect me as their manager and know how much i respect and appreciate them but my own managers treat me like **** and take advantage of me all day long. They know I'm pushed to the limit work wise but still pile on more work and almost want me to fail. My team have been so amaz ing and are supporting me so much but my line managers are literally breaking me. I know work isn't everything but i like to do a good job and I like to feel secure at work. I don't like people taking advantage of me and lying about me but I have no control whatsoever about that. It really frustrates me. I'm not your typical manager as I'm not hard nosed and desperate to shout about how "great I am at this and that and how I came up with the idea of this and that" I'm not that desperate and needy for approval that I make other people look bad to make myself feel good so I don't get why other people want to do that to me. It's really getting me down and I'm having to go into work knowing management are taking the piss out of me and discrediting me. I'm.still going on smilling and acting as though i don't know but inside I feel like crying and calling them out on it. I'm not a confrontational person so when im being belittled and patronized at work I've just acted dumb while they're all having a good laugh at my expense. They know they can get away with it because I'm too professional to "kick off" or cause a scene but I do want them to realise that I'm a person, I work hard and I'm really upset with how cruel they are being towards to me. Am I doing the right thing in ignoring it or is it time I spoke up myself and fought my corner. I just wish everyone could be nice to eachother