is it cheating if a girl as a bf but has sex with another girl

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Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
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Yes it's cheating
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How is this even a question?
It's cheating regardless of the gender you slept with.
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Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
Are you actually that stupid?
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I actually have no words - bar these. You can't he so stupid that you think you have to have with the opposite sex for it to be cheating?
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Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
Yes. You had a sexual interaction with someone who is not your partner, therefore, you cheated on him. Being drunk is not an excuse. You need to tell your boyfriend so he can decide what he wants to do, and you need to learn your limits with alcohol. You've done it twice, therefore it wasn't a one-off "mistake". If you want to explore your sexuality with this woman, then you should break up with your boyfriend. Or, if you're both open to it, then engaging in an open relationship may be a solution for you. Either way, you need to talk about this with your boyfriend.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
I don't think it is a cheating. Having love with someone and have boy friend does not mean you have to always do sex him him only. Love never stops you from doing what you feel like. I think when you both were happy doing sex and when you both have no issues, then why you are worried about others. So, keep calm, enjoy your life and don't listen to these people.
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You’re too dumb for uni.
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(Original post by amitdhan)
I don't think it is a cheating. Having love with someone and have boy friend does not mean you have to always do sex him him only. Love never stops you from doing what you feel like. I think when you both were happy doing sex and when you both have no issues, then why you are worried about others. So, keep calm, enjoy your life and don't listen to these people.
Well you are a wind up merchant
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Nope, not cheating
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
UMM.....YES
Smh how are you in Uni?
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(Original post by amitdhan)
I don't think it is a cheating. Having love with someone and have boy friend does not mean you have to always do sex him him only. Love never stops you from doing what you feel like. I think when you both were happy doing sex and when you both have no issues, then why you are worried about others. So, keep calm, enjoy your life and don't listen to these people.
Being in an exclusive relationship with someone means you cannot be physical or intimate with anyone else. That is the definition of cheating.
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If you say no homo afterwards it's not cheating
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Are you actually that stupid?
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Why don't you ask him what he defines it as, I'm sure if he loves you he will feel incredibly hurt by this. If you don't think it's cheating, surely you'll have no problem cheerfully announcing this to him. But going by the fact you're even asking it, you know its cheating and you must feel incredibly guilty. Better to own up.
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Ngl to you, if my girl told me she cheated with a girl itd be nowhere near as bad. Invite him for a threesome n he’ll be gassed you f****d that b***h
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Ngl to you, if my girl told me she cheated with a girl itd be nowhere near as bad. Invite him for a threesome n he’ll be gassed you f****d that b***h
You're 13, right?
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smh my head
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Im asking because Im at uni I have a bf back home but I thought I was straight until I met this girl on my course and we hit it off straight away, she's bi and basically the other night we had both had a few to drink and ended up sleeping with each other, since we have met up again and had sex, she doesn't know I have a bf, im confused though is this still cheating?
It is cheating unless you and your bf are in an open relationship. At uni people tend to explore more, maybe you and your bf should go on a break while you try and figure out what you want. Hope it all goes well
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Why not just ask him?
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