Hi there, I'm a guy,19 ,took a gap year and went to newcastle univeristy. When I arrived at my halls everyone else had already been there a day and some more for pre season. One girl made an effort to talk to me and invited me out. I felt quite awkward but it was okay. During freshers week I didn't see half my flat for the first 4 days. I haven't got to know many of them yet and I've been at uni for 3 weeks, the only time I see them is in the kitchen. Everyone in my halls went to private school which is weird, but as a result they had so many connections from boarding schools that they only hanged out with their school friends. So I am not yet mates with them. As a result I go to dinner and breakfast alone every day. I have joined a couple of societies and made a few friends but not ones that I feel comfortable asking to the pub. I'm in a mixed flat, but there are lots of all guy and girl flats, where the guys go to dinner together and so do the girls, people are already talking about who they are living with next year and I feel like I don't know anyone well enough to message.. I used to suffer with social anxiety so I am not as outgoing as I'd like, I am somewhat extroverted and like going out, but not on my own that's the worst feeling in the world. I go to the gym 5 times a week but have no regular activities. I have ADHD so organising my life is really difficult and it is hard for me to remember things like social events. I would say I have a really decent personality, I'm kind, good humoured, humble and fun, but I'm yet to find my group of people . My course is mostly guys and they seem alright and I've kind of tried to move into a group, but I'm not sure I'm in 'with the lads ' just yet .Should I move flat? , how do I improve this? And is anyone experiencing this too?