My teacher might have a crush on me idk. Watch

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Ok so here is some background:
- I’m in Year 9
- The teacher is like 22/23
-The teacher is single

Anyway imma start the story.

Ok so I have only spent a term in Year 9 but it has been kinda crazy. Ok so I was walking into my first lesson of biology and the teacher, lets call him Mr H, his eyes went huge and he smiled really cutely when he first saw me. He always let me off for stuff, and always made sure I understood the work. Once he dropped something right next to me and I felt a finger stroke my thigh. I was slightly confused but I didn’t care. He always seemed excited when I talked to him after class, even though some conversation was awkward, idk why. Anyway, one of the main things he does is he winks at me and finds a way to touch me. Sometimes it is my waist, my shoulder, my leg, my hair. I may have a huge crush on him, but never plan to do anything about it, but that is the reason why I let him. Yes I know it’s weird but well idc I am weird. But he has attempted to hold my hand before but nothing happened of that. He once also did the weird eye thing where he looks at your lips desirably, like he wanted to kiss me. I mean, no complaints (IM JOKING IM TRYNA LIGHTEN THE SCENARIO). But yeh basically I think we both kinda fancy each other but I won’t do anything about my crush but he apparently does. Ok imma edit this if anything else happens.
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You're definitely looking too deep into this and associating random things as signs. He's just trying to be nice and is wanting to teach you.

Just focus on school, play video games, drink plenty of milk, eat your 5 a day, watch cartoons and don't think too much about this because it's all in your mind.
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btw I forgot to mention he grabbed my waist once. I wasn’t sure how to react so I just let it happen. It didn’t go further though
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You're definitely looking too deep into this and associating random things as signs. He's just trying to be nice and is wanting to teach you.

Just focus on school, play video games, drink plenty of milk, eat your 5 a day, watch cartoons and don't think too much about this because it's all in your mind.
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Imagine being up at 5am trolling... Jeeez you must have a sad life 😂
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gota agree on that
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Imagine being up at 5am trolling... Jeeez you must have a sad life 😂
Huh didn’t know that was what I was doing but ok thanks for assuming the **** in my life is fake. Bye ***** 👏
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Huh didn’t know that was what I was doing but ok thanks for assuming the **** in my life is fake. Bye ***** 👏
👍🏼, you won't be missed.
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One of my friends accused a teacher of being a paedophile and she got sent to isolation and had to have a meeting with the teacher... if a teacher makes you uncomfortable, speak to a form tutor, head of year, etc

And don't worry, crushes on teachers eventually wear off
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The answer is one of these two things: 1) The most probable answer is: no. You're 13, you look like a child to him so unless he's a pedophile he won't like you like that. 2) He is a pedophile which means you don't want to get involved with him anyway.
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The answer is one of these two things: 1) The most probable answer is: no. You're 13, you look like a child to him so unless he's a pedophile he won't like you like that. 2) He is a pedophile which means you don't want to get involved with him anyway.
My friends think he is too but we won’t say anything because we don’t know but I would never get involved with him it’s completely inappropriate
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My friends think he is too but we won’t say anything because we don’t know but I would never get involved with him it’s completely inappropriate
No offense but your friends are also dumb 13 year olds. I'm telling you, there's a 99% chance he's just a nice man and likes you as a person for some reason.
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The facts:
He's your teacher
He's 22/23
You're 13/14
It's illegal

Given the above facts, I recommend you move on swiftly
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These like nothing more than the fantasies of a 13-year-old girl with a crush.
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No offense but your friends are also dumb 13 year olds. I'm telling you, there's a 99% chance he's just a nice man and likes you as a person for some reason.
to be fair you have a point. imma just be cautious just in case
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to be fair you have a point. imma just be cautious just in case
Yeah just remember it would be incredibly weird if he liked you. That's like you liking a 7 year old for comparison. Ik it might not seem that weird because you're 13 but if you think about if a 13 year old liked a 7 year old that's kind of the same weirdness. To me, 13 year olds look like children and I'm 17, to him you will look even more like a child.
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(Original post by anmynus3726)
Ok so here is some background:
- I’m in Year 9
- The teacher is like 22/23
-The teacher is single

Anyway imma start the story.

Ok so I have only spent a term in Year 9 but it has been kinda crazy. Ok so I was walking into my first lesson of biology and the teacher, lets call him Mr H, his eyes went huge and he smiled really cutely when he first saw me. He always let me off for stuff, and always made sure I understood the work. Once he dropped something right next to me and I felt a finger stroke my thigh. I was slightly confused but I didn’t care. He always seemed excited when I talked to him after class, even though some conversation was awkward, idk why. Anyway, one of the main things he does is he winks at me and finds a way to touch me. Sometimes it is my waist, my shoulder, my leg, my hair. I may have a huge crush on him, but never plan to do anything about it, but that is the reason why I let him. Yes I know it’s weird but well idc I am weird. But he has attempted to hold my hand before but nothing happened of that. He once also did the weird eye thing where he looks at your lips desirably, like he wanted to kiss me. I mean, no complaints (IM JOKING IM TRYNA LIGHTEN THE SCENARIO). But yeh basically I think we both kinda fancy each other but I won’t do anything about my crush but he apparently does. Ok imma edit this if anything else happens.
It's likely you're twisting his actions in your mind because you have a crush on him. This can happen quite often, so don't feel bad about it. His actions, which are likely just regular teacher-student things, you're making in your head seem more intimate than they are.

If he makes you uncomfortable by touching you (he shouldn't be touching your waist regularly, if at all), then please report it to another teacher.
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(Original post by Quick-use)
You're definitely looking too deep into this and associating random things as signs. He's just trying to be nice and is wanting to teach you.

Just focus on school, play video games, drink plenty of milk, eat your 5 a day, watch cartoons and don't think too much about this because it's all in your mind.
Yes.

You have a crush on him and you want him to have a crush on you. He doesn’t.
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Yes.

You have a crush on him and you want him to have a crush on you. He doesn’t.
How do you know that. If you have ever been in my position you would know. Grabbing my waist and touching me is incredibly inappropriate, and by “crush” I mean I think he looks sorta good looking. Not that I would ever want to engage in any sort of non teacher-student relationship. So don’t tell me I am lying because I would never lie about this. I shared this story because I wanted some advice of what to do. Not to be dismissed by someone older then me saying its all me when its not. Don’t get all big because you have lived longer then some.
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It's likely you're twisting his actions in your mind because you have a crush on him. This can happen quite often, so don't feel bad about it. His actions, which are likely just regular teacher-student things, you're making in your head seem more intimate than they are.

If he makes you uncomfortable by touching you (he shouldn't be touching your waist regularly, if at all), then please report it to another teacher.
I may have taken some of his actions to be fair but I feel the touching is a tad inappropriate. Idk 🤷*♀️
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(Original post by anmynus3726)
I may have taken some of his actions to be fair but I feel the touching is a tad inappropriate. Idk 🤷*♀️
Like I said, report it. It sounds inappropriate so you definitely need to tell someone.
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