What would you choose? boy A or boy B?

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Boy A:
- well dressed, clean shaved and smells good (good looking)
- workaholic, profit-oriented hence frugal ( extreme cheapskate)
- had a traumatising past so mature, he has a hard time expressing emotions. though, he has his own way of showing love and appreciation
- has short temper, will give you silent treatment after arguments until you apologize
- prefers calling over texting. Will give you reply in one-two sentence. Like i said, he is not expressive, that just his personality, doesn't mean he is cold. He will not respond when he is out with his friends. ( he is like bros before hoes type)

Boy B
- doesn't really care about the way he looks. he looks average. he avoids skinny jeans and colours contrast that are unpleasant to eyes ( like pink and red? yellow and green?)
- family-oriented. He doesn't mix his professional life with personal life.
- extremely expressive. He would try to talk things out after an argument and reconcile. He is also obsessive, he would text you like 5-10 lines or more at a point where it would be overwhelming.
- He would respond you no matter where is he. If he can't respond, it would only when his phone is out of charge or lost.
- Was raised in an environment with strict religious views so he would try to impose his views on you and you would have to follow it to make him happy
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Boy b
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this is weird because I actually can't tell which one op is
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Anonymous #1
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
this is weird because I actually can't tell which one op is
haha both of them are my exs actually
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hardest decision i had to make today.

i have to go with guy A. but we would most likely break up after a day because i also give silent treatments until someone apologises. we can’t silent treatment each other to death
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haha both of them are my exs actually
then why are you asking lmao
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
this is weird because I actually can't tell which one op is
definitely guy A.
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(Original post by HoldThisL)
then why are you asking lmao
curious about the public's opinion lol
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I was with boy B until the last bit about religion. so therefore boy A is the lesser of two evils and I would choose him, but srsly is this all you got? ditch both and get somebody who treats you well and doesn't impose anything on you.
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Definitely boy A
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Neither. They both sound awful.
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hardest decision of my life, but i think
i'll go for....

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neither of them
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Neither. They both sound awful.
I agree totally. What a Hobson's choice!

Boy A, the bad tempered one
or Boy B the obsessive one with the controlling religious views.

You'd be better off single than with either of those.
There are loads of boy C's that, whilst not being perfect, are at least not bad tempered, nor obsessive not controlling. Those are the sorts of boys where you are better off being with them than single.
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(Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
I agree totally. What a Hobson's choice!

Boy A, the bad tempered one
or Boy B the obsessive one with the controlling religious views.

You'd be better off single than with either of those.
There are loads of boy C's that, whilst not being perfect, are at least not bad tempered, nor obsessive not controlling. Those are the sorts of boys where you are better off being with them than single.
I think everyone has a negative side, no one is really perfect. We choose the ones worth suffering for.
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Boy A
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A as B kinda is a little... lol. The last part threw me off, I don’t think anyone should be forcing their perspectives onto others- especially if it’s with religion. I think that if he does this, then he would also be very stubborn about many other things. A might be frustrating but oh well.
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Boy C

There are plenty more boys out there without these issues
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haha both of them are my exs actually
Boy A is a control freak and manipulative. Whatever that trauma was, he should seek help.

Boy B sounds lovely, sure you're not going to be rich but you're going to be loved and adored. The religion thing is something you need to know whether you're happy with or not.

Is there a Boy C? That one sounds like a total winner.
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