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If guys are supposed to like most women then why am I 24 and still never had a bf or been chatted up by a guy lol? I want to get to the bottom of it but its quite hard there are too many factors Guys simply ignore me like Im not there.
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Perhaps people dont see you as an approachable person. Its hard to say with so little information.
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Post a pic
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probably a minger
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(Original post by Guy Secretan)
probably a minger
Ever the politician, aint ya!?
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you have to describe yourself to us, are you polite? sensible / naughty / would you describe yourself as not bad looking, or dead gawjuss....i would help, lol, but you havent given alot of information:confused:

1 tip- men dont always have to come to you, we can go to them


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maybe you're ug?
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There are loads of reasons:

  • Where you're going? Does it look like other people are getting approached?
  • Who you're going with- (if you hang out with a lot of guys then maybe that is why.)
  • Do you look approachable
  • do your friends get chatted up?


Have you tried approaching guys yourself? People do that these days, :p: hehe!
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I think the best reason is probably that you dont make much of an effort, that is all i can tell from the information you hav given.
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(Original post by Anonymous,)
If guys are supposed to like most women then why am I 24 and still never had a bf or been chatted up by a guy lol? I want to get to the bottom of it but its quite hard there are too many factors Guys simply ignore me like Im not there.
you really have to tell us more about yourself.
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Maybe someone stamped the word "herpes" on your forehead in ink that only men can see.
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Maybe people just presume that you have a boyfriend already? Like other people have said, maybe you don't look like an approachable person and I don't mean that you look mean or anything. Like you could seem to be a tomboy so guys just want to have you as a friend or shy so guys find it hard to talk to you or too outgoing so guys get really scared? I'm just guessing here by the way. We can't really help unless you tell us a bit more about yourself and your personality. Don't worry, there are loads of factors involved in this, not everyone has a boyfriend by the time they're 24. As for the chatting up thing, won't you rather have a boyfriend that you met as a friend instead of a random stranger chatting you up in a street?

No one really chats me up but the occasional wolf whistling and car horn beeping can get really annoying and makes you feel like a piece of meat at times. You're not really missing out on anything.
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I just put a pic in profile lol I know the clothes look stupid :/
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we cant tell from just that post
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u r probably hard to approach.Like r u very shy or something?
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I just put a pic in profile lol I know the clothes look stupid :/
I cant find it

oh i can see it now..
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i'm like you OP i never get chatted up :sad: the only time i ever get any attention is when i go clubbing

i think i'm pretty approachable but maybe not, i'm quite shy most of the time so think that may have something to do with it but maybe i'm just hideous
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Guys are generally shallow. Honestly - invest in some new, stylish clothes, use a self-tanner, go to an expensive hair salon. It's all worth it. Join a gym, see a trainer - let him hook you up with a program and work out at least 3 times a week. See a stylist. Don't be nervous around guys. Try to get eye contact (make sure you have contacts if you're wear glasses). Just try it all out and if that doesn't work out, you could try speed dating...even join up on one of those dating sites (but be careful!)
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I just put a pic in profile lol I know the clothes look stupid :/
smiiiiiiiiile. you'll be surprised at the wonders it does.
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i would chat you up
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