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QPRMichael
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Hey people, I was just wondering what the best way to chat a girl up would be e.g. if you are on a bus and see a pretty girl how would you go about starting up a conversation with her, I would also like advice on how to go about chatting up girls in any situation/place. Advice from both boys and girls would be nice.

Thanks.
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When I'm chatting to a guy I usually crack a joke. Something about where we are or the situation we are in. I think its a hell of a lot easier for a girl to chat a guy up though! (Tough luck )

Have to appear confident but not too confident is the key for guys.
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once i chatted up a guy on a bus. The bus was empty and i just walked over and sat on the chair infront of him and just chatted away. We went out on a couple dates but he turned out to be pretty dull.

I dont really knowwhat to say as to advice. Be yourself and try to project confidence?
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hmm...firstly you could try and sit next to them...and then try commenting something good about them or something..
im not sure what other girls would make of this... i personally would be a bit scared @ 1st, but if your a good person, i see no harm..

you could like try and see them at the same place and time... and smile..and if she smiles...try starting a convo or something..

thats all the advice i can give :p:
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(Original post by balloon_parade)
I think its a hell of a lot easier for a girl to chat a guy up though! (Tough luck )
Agreed. Guys just don't turn things down...
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I met my girlfriend on the bus. the bus was packed, so was standing next to her, I just asked her , "excuse me, do you have the time?" (lame I know!) then I just said, "man I'm going to be late!" and she responded, started a conversation from there and then asked for her number and got it! Was really nervous, but just thought to myself, if it works oh well, if it doesn't, most likely will never see her again! So you have nothing to lose! Go for it!
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(Original post by uchiha37)
I met my girlfriend on the bus. the bus was packed, so was standing next to her, I just asked her , "excuse me, do you have the time?" (lame I know!) then I just said, "man I'm going to be late!" and she responded, started a conversation from there and then asked for her number and got it! Was really nervous, but just thought to myself, if it works oh well, if it doesn't, most likely will never see her again! So you have nothing to lose! Go for it!
when you put her number into your phone didnt she realise you coulda just checked the time on your phone?! :p:
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It does depend on the girl. But you just need to use the environment around you to start conversation and be funny.
I live with girls who know they are sexy and in a club/bar, they can be really mean sometimes and one of my housemates used to send me a text saying "SOS" which meant get rid of someone ... I would do the same if some weird gay guy I didn't like hit on me ... so unless you're somewhat confident, won't take it personally and can still be cool - then go for it in a club. Just say hi or something and initiate conversation. Talk about the bartenders. I do that at gay bars occasionally if there is a nice guy next to me ...
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(Original post by black_mac29)
when you put her number into your phone didnt she realise you coulda just checked the time on your phone?! :p:

What I did was I had a pen in my pocket, just put the number down on my hand, so she didn't see I had a phone on me.
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yeah start with something in the area, and slowly transition conversation away from that, and give her a reason for yher to give you her number
don't
-ask if she has a boyfriend
-talk about wanting to "bang" her
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Start with an opener which excludes you from hitting on her, most girls dont like being hit on straight away. this will work most of the time.

e.g. Hey i need a girls opinion on something. My frends ex cheated on him but he took her back. Do you think this is right?

and make sure you dont work yourself up to say it, she will no if your trying to pluck up the courage to do it. so just do it natrurally like you asking anyone.
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