Using sex toy hurts every timeWatch
Im a 20f virgin but i have some toys. My issue is with my dildo. Originally i could not even get it in, but i actually managed to get it fully in yesterday. Every time i've used it I have bled, i bled particularly much yesterday but i finally thought i had pretty much broken my hymen/stretched it out. It hurt when it 'popped' in (It literally made a popping sound). Then when i was finished, i had a lot of trouble getting it back out! Like i went to get up off it and what i'm assuming was my hymen was stretched so tightly around it that it was literally stuck inside me. I tried pulling it out but it really hurt, in the end i had to clench my teeth and give it a huge tug and it finally 'popped' out again making quite a loud noise but it really hurt quite a lot and was a bit scary because i thought OMG what if i can't get it out, that would be so embarrassing!
Anyway, i tried again today and i had the same issue with it being painful past that same point and i managed to get it in again but again it was so painful to get out and it got stuck inside again. I'm assuming it is my hymen not being stretched out enough because i can get the head in fine and then it starts hurting and once its passed that area it is fine again. It's just getting it in and out, whenever it has to go past the ring of flesh i can feel with my fingers. But i thought after getting it fully in it would be stretched out enough to not hurt anymore, but that's not the case.
Obviously i've never had sex so i was wondering is this normal? Will it ever stop hurting, i don't want sex to be painful the first time Thank you for any advice.
Make sure you are aroused and use lubricant if required.
If your body is not used to penetration it may feel painful. Going gently and listening to your body is important.
Are you fully aroused? Play with yourself beforehand and make sure you're wet enough and go slowly with the dildo. It sounds like you're forcing it a bit which could hurt. Maybe invest in a wee bullet vibrator or smth to turn you on some more.