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Jostal31
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My girlfriend went to a party recently, she got drunk and was calling this guy at the party my name and ended up kissing him on the cheek. Is there something to be worried about or am I just overthinking.
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I mean maybe she should consider drinking a bit more responsibly but she called him your name, clearly she thought it was you or something similar so I wouldn't worry about her being like "unfaithful" or something, it is just a kiss on the cheek anyway. But maybe talk to her about drinking herself silly because that could result in problems
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Who did she sleep with that (or the next) night? You or him?

It was you.

You won that contest. Carry on acting in a way that will win every contest for her heart, if you want to keep her.

That doesn't mean acting like a doormat. It means acting like a good, well adjusted, considerate, fun, sexy, interesting, mature boyfriend.

Has she had previous boyfriends? So that she knows how good you are compared to the previous men she's been involved with?
If you're her first, you may be on a slippery slope, because she has nothing to compare you against and may be under the impression that everyone is as good as you.

You are a great boyfriend for her? If not, you can't blame her for wanting to try someone else.
The fact that you've started this thread may be a red flag that you aren't.
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(Original post by Dunnig Kruger)
Who did she sleep with that (or the next) night? You or him?

It was you.

You won that contest. Carry on acting in a way that will win every contest for her heart, if you want to keep her.

That doesn't mean acting like a doormat. It means acting like a good, well adjusted, considerate, fun, sexy, interesting, mature boyfriend.

Has she had previous boyfriends? So that she knows how good you are compared to the previous men she's been involved with?
If you're her first, you may be on a slippery slope, because she has nothing to compare you against and may be under the impression that everyone is as good as you.

You are a great boyfriend for her? If not, you can't blame her for wanting to try someone
The fact that you've started this thread may be a red flag tha
Not really a red flag, I just don’t fancy getting cheated on and was wanting an opinion from others.
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Considering she was calling him by your name, she obviously thought it was you. It sounds ridiculous but alcohol can do weird things to people. I'd tell her to not get that drunk in the future
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(Original post by Cryoraptor)
Considering she was calling him by your name, she obviously thought it was you. It sounds ridiculous but alcohol can do weird things to people. I'd tell her to not get that drunk in the future
Thanks buddy.
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