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Is it possible that T isn't saying anything to me because he knows that his friend likes me? Could it be that he's too shy to initiate conversation? Or is it that I've read too far into it and he doesn't like me at all? There are bits I haven't added to keep the story as brief as physically possible - but please help!!!
I defo think he isn’t saying anything because you rejected his friend! But you should definitely talk to him. It sounds like he really is interested and really likes you. Maybe he’s trying to give you hints. So literally start a convo!! I’m in first year of uni and I’m going through a weird situation too. This guy purposely talks to my friends talks to everyone but me. He can blatantly see that as he’s talking introducing him to my friend I’m just there looking at him. Now you would think maybe he hates or dislikes you but honestly I’ve never said or done anything to him! I catch him from afar looking at me. Even up close he’ll start convos with his friends and when he knows I’m listening in he gets quite passionate. I don’t get what’s up with him? Is he trying to make me jealous by ignoring me? Because he makes it VERY obvious when he does so. And the funny thing is, it’s only been 3 weeks of uni so he knows zero about me, just the same way he knows nothing about all my friends. Yet they get an intro while I get iced out. Unfair right? Ngl it hurts my feelings.. anyway sorry this was about you! So yes, as I said earlier? You definitely haven’t read into it. He obviously can’t get enough of you haha! I think he likes you and I think deep inside he wishes somehow you guys could talk and that it could actually go somewhere..
It DEFINITELY sounds like you're going through the same thing as me as I have the same issue of the guy talking to all of my friends except for me!!! It's just that my situation has been going on for way longer. Maybe he just gets nervous trying to approach you? I guess you only have 2 options...approach him or wait and see if he approaches you. Thank you so much for your response though, I feel like I can confirm that I'm not going crazy.
I can’t even imagine going through it over and over, for as long as you did. It would drive me insane? I think it has gone on too long for you to not speak to him. But main question is, do you like him too? Do you like it when he takes the effort to look at you, or do you find it creepy? && I don’t understand why he’s nervous to approach me he did it fine to my friends. I would never exclude anyone. If I was talking to his friends, it literally makes sense to introduce myself to him too. If you were me, would you approach him or wait for him to approach you? I have tried speaking to him once but he kinda disregarded me and focussed more than he usually would in talking to my friend like being overly forward. Almost to hurt me
I think he's an attractive guy and from what I know about him, he seems really nice. At first, I thought it was okay for him to look at me but now it's slightly annoying because I actually want to have a conversation with him in person. + I think it's more difficult to approach someone that you like as opposed to someone you don't like which is probably why he finds it easier to have a conversation with your friends. I think I would definitely say something to him - what I didn't mention was that I have actually spoken to the guy I know before (I initiated the conversation) and we had a long conversation on snapchat. But the next time I saw him and said 'hey', he kinda disregarded me (the same way your guy did to you), he said hey back but quickly ran away but still then proceeded to stare at me later. I get how you feel when you say it hurts you, it's not the nicest feeling and he probably doesn't even understand that you feel this way. It wouldn't harm you to speak to him - I find that the best way to speak is if you're friends with one of his friends. For example, in my case, I am friends with three of T's friends so whenever I see that they are with him, I'll walk up to them and talk about the lectures then I'll direct a question at them and make T answer also because he can't avoid answering.
I think he’s just shy -you should speak to him, you don’t wanna have any regrets. Too much has gone on to let it end in a way you never spoke. & thanks for your advice. I have tried speaking to him once like I said earlier ^ and the way he disregarded me, the thought of speaking to him again and getting the same treatment idk what I’d do then? I gave him a chance but he didn’t take it.